Name: cjsims Title: ruining your body and becoming infertile.

Ladies, let me tell you, you are ruining your bodies. Just cause the outside looks the way you think you want it to after starving yourself or barfing up McDs, trust me, your insides are being totally screwed. Especially for those who want to have children, alot of you have already damaged your bodies to the point, that even though you may be young, your anorexic or bulimic habits have ruined your female organs, and you won't be able to have children. Please stop doing this to yourself before you ruin yourself to the point of never being able to concieve a beautiful child. Looks fade, but the love for your child will last forever, if you haven't already ruined your insides to the point of being infertile. This happened to a friend of mine. She is only 18, and wants a baby really bad when she finds a decent man and gets married. But guess what? She will never be able to get pregnant, because of her extreme dieting measures that she still struggles with. I hope you take this to heart, and get help as soon as you can.  ?

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Name: cjsims • Date: 01/26/2008 00:10:38

Don't avoid this topic, cause it does and can happen.  =

Name: cjsims • Date: 01/30/2008 23:41:30

just bumping this up for people who care.  =

Name: Astarael • Date: 02/03/2008 00:16:34

You don't get it, do you?

All the REAL anorexics and REAL bulimics who have enough drive/motivation/WHATEVER you want to call it aren't going to care about this.

The only thing that can be heard is that voice that's in your head, whispering in your ear that you need to purge, or you'll be happier if you lose 10 more pounds, or "God, you're such a fucking FATTIE, WHY did you eat that extra piece of bread?!"

Anorexics and bulimics don't care that they are "ruining their bodies". They only care about getting down to nothing, using whatever it takes.  =

Name: cjsims • Date: 02/03/2008 16:37:08

Well, I'll tell you something. They sure the heck will care, when they find out they have a hole in their heart, or some of their veins have collapsed, or that their female organs are so far gone, that nothing can be done to repair them. The girl I talked about in my post, is only 18, and is a recovering bulimic. She is devastated, cause there is really no hope for her to be able to get pregnant. Ever. That is one reason she decided to try and get the help she needed, was cause she knew in the back of her mind, that if her body wasn't in the right state, that her chances of concieving were slim to none. But, she got the help too late. Her female organs are just in her body, taking up space. She'll probably never concieve, and hasn't had a period or ovulated in months and months. And no, she isn't on Birth control. I hope all you girls who have an eating disorder will get help before it is too late......Good luck.  =

Name: Heather Mae • Date: 02/04/2008 15:43:23

I am glad I found this sit- my greatest goal is to have a child(and grt over my disorder)
Nicloe Ritchie is a HUGE inspiration, but no enough... Any ideas? It has been years- HELP  =

Name: cjsims • Date: 02/04/2008 18:54:08

Hey Heather, I'm glad you're here to get some help. Yes, what I said about my friend is true, and I hope that doesn't have to be your reality also. How old are you?  =

Name: cjsims • Date: 04/02/2008 08:02:30

111  =

Name: kamala • Date: 04/04/2008 00:02:42

I agree with astarel...  =

Name: kamala • Date: 04/04/2008 00:02:52

I agree with astarael...  =

Name: cjsims • Date: 04/11/2008 16:00:09

You can agree with whoever and whatever you want to, but it doesn't mean that there isn't consequences for your actions later in life, when you decide to straighten up...  =

Name: kamala • Date: 04/13/2008 05:06:46

Of course it doesn't mean there aren't consequences coz I know there r....it still doesn't stop anyone from being anorexic! Anorexia is too strong  =