Name: elite_britain Title: 13 yo son caught masturbating and doin some silly stuff

i am a 45 year old woman and a mother of two.. my eldest, who is 13, is my favorite because he is always doing good at school. one day, when i was returning home from the mall because i forgot my credit card, i entered the house and i saw my son at the backyard swimming pool masturbating and he is inserting a big pin in his butt... i was shocked, and i thought "is my son gay"? is it normal for boys to put things in their butts and masturbate? im really worried...  ?

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Name: mycountryheart • Date: 12/15/2007 12:09:09

Hello, well honestly I don't think it's normal but some guys (straight guys) like that kind of stuff. But I'm bi so yeah it's different.  =

Name: lindalu • Date: 12/16/2007 17:11:33

Lol!!! I don't think he's gay. What I do think is that he found that pleasure spot in the rectum just below the prostate. If pressure is applied to that spot while masturbating it can deliver much more sexual pleasure. Don't worry, because he discovered that spot does not mean he is going to be gay.  =

Name: .RoSey. • Date: 12/27/2007 16:34:30

your not meant to have favourites.. how do you think your other child feels............ Christ..  =

Name: youngman • Date: 01/05/2008 13:30:08

The favorite thing caught me off gaurd, but as for you son masturbation habits. It is important for children to feel safe. Did you expect your son to start masturbating, if so then really you should not be shocked. The thing with injecting something into his anus is for pleasure. It has little to do with sexuality for now. The most important thing now is to let your son know how you feel about him doing in the pool. Give him some boundaries. Where he can and that it is OKAy with mom is more important than anything else. You do not want to walk into the living room one night and see him at it, but if he locks his door than it is okay. I would have felt much more at ease in my house if I didn't need to sneak around. As far as the gay thing, You need to ask yourself will I still love him if he is, because that is all that matters to him.  =

Name: caucajun32 • Date: 01/29/2008 21:13:54

It's just about experimentation at his age. My sister and I used to masturbate together when we were both teens and she used to put her hairbrush handle in her butt, while masturbating.

Did the fact that she put an object up her butt make her gay, no, not at all, it was her way of giving herself pleasure.

Ask your self, if it had been your daughter that you saw with an object up her butt, would you have came up with the same question ? If not, ................ why ?

So why in the world would you think your son is gay ?  =

Name: oilybabyman • Date: 02/08/2008 10:19:09

i was beating it the other night and bent my penis at a 90 degree angle and now it won bend back. it hurts really really bad and i need some help....... i cant go to the hospital there is a warrant out for my arrest.... plz help me  =

Name: playmatex3x • Date: 02/15/2008 23:47:57

cut it off oilybabyman because its not like u get any. and nobody cares.  =

Name: melrose08 • Date: 03/31/2008 19:03:05

First off coming from a 16 year old, that fucked up you have 'favorites'. My mom was like that with my sister and guess who has ended up dealing with depression and anorexia, not saying that thats the reason but my didnt give a fuck so i was like 'why should i' and im a girl so idk...thats fucking weird putting things in your butt but guys masterbate all the time.  =