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I read her diary & it said she performed oral sex on a boy. She also wrote a boy fingered her. I'm in shock and don't know what to do or say to her. She's only 13..... ↓
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| Name: to alice | Date: Mar 29th, 2006 2:12 AM |
geezzz that would be a shock to the system!!!! i am seventeen and just the thought of my daughter doing these things at such a young age scares me. although i know that these days throughout school it was considered normal to do these type of things! actually it was normal to have lost your virginity by the age of 14...which is a bit scary! to be honest i would confront her and just ask her light questions like..."do you have a boyfriend" etc...hopefully she will open up to you herself and you will not have to tell her that you have read her diary! but.... if not, if she is very sneaky about the whole thing i would just confront her and ask why she is putting herself through all off this at a young age? also give advice on sexually transmitted diseases....tell her also that although she is not having "sex" she is at risk of herpes etc... which is passed through the body by the "fluid and mucus contact" also inform her that at such a young age...guys are only intrested in one thing in which we all know! "sex-sex-sex" just let her noe your their for her no matter what and just talk openly with her and give her the best possible advice you are able to give!!!!
Good Luck Alice....wishing you the best of luck! i'm sure all will go well... ↑ |
| Name: to dishonest parent | Date: Mar 29th, 2006 7:27 PM |
| well if you don't know what to do, why don't you start with not reading her diary. ↑ |
| Name: Lisa | Date: Mar 30th, 2006 9:51 PM |
| I would grab her by the arm and beat her ass for starters.Then I would cease all phone calls and visitors from friends and put little miss 13 on a very strict monitored schedule.If shes got time for those extra curricular activities then shes got too much time on her hands ,which means you can ful-fill her hours with tons of housework each and everyday and work her little ass so much she passes out from exhaustion every night.And I bet her grades probably arent that great either so Id have her teachers assign her extra credit to bring up her grades and then Id take her to a doctor and make sure she hasnt contracted anything and put her ass on birthcontrol because it sounds like you got a wild one on your hands! I know you cant tie her down til shes 18 but if she were my kid Id be doing everything but.I wouldnt give her a moments peace,obviously,shes had too much of that. I would take her to and from school and become her worst nightmare.Everywhere she turns you should be there.And it would probably be a good idea to check on her at night while shes sleeping to makke sure she isnt sneaking out and Id also make her leave her bedroom door open at all times or even remove it.Id be on her like flies on shit letting her know that aint happening ever again! Oh and I would go one step further and contact the boys parents and let them know what he was doing with your daughter and if the boy is older ,press every charge against him you can.Teach both of them a lesson theyll never forget! I would!!I know I sound harsh but if youre too lenient,shell be up to her old tricks in no-time! ↑ |
| Name: kassy | Date: Apr 1st, 2006 2:33 PM |
| I wouldnt let her know you read it. The more you push her the further she will go. She will be angry and then you will never know whats going on with her. Try to talk to her in ways where your keeping tabs on her but she will feel like youre interested in her. Dont freak out if she does tell you something then that will never happen again. Keep tabs on where shes going and who she is with. Try not to control her but watch from a distance. ↑ |
| Name: emalee | Date: Sep 29th, 2007 4:57 PM |
ksso.. i think your horrible for reading her diary in the first place,
thats the most privet thing to a female other then her own brain.
and, alot of young girls do alot more by now, not all, but alottt.
and, you shouldnt worrie, maybe put her on birth controll,
but if you be mad at her, she'll absolutley lose her mind. ↑ |
| Name: emalee | Date: Sep 29th, 2007 7:57 PM |
oh, annddd, "lisa" is a stupid whore face,
because if youdid any of the thins she wrote,
your child, will only rebel more, and probably actually have SEX
with someone, just to spite you.
so, stop tryin to be all macho, and shutup, you oobbvvviously,
have no idea how the teen mind workksss. ↑ |
| Name: irish Amy | Date: Oct 9th, 2007 5:54 PM |
| Name: irish Amy | Date: Oct 9th, 2007 5:59 PM |
| emalee, sweetheart we have all been teenagers at one time ↑ |
| Name: David_82 | Date: Oct 15th, 2007 12:56 PM |
| you bitch why you reading her diary in the first place . but yeh im not being funny or nothing but if your daugters doing that at 13 shes most proborbly smoking aswell and other naughtyy things *giggles*. i think you should be like who was he and just atleast show some interest dont shout yet wait a bit,THEN MAKE HER WATCH HIGH SCHOOL MUSICAL OVER AND OVER AND OVER AGAIN TILL SHE BEGS IT TO STOP AHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA ↑ |
| Name: David_82 | Date: Oct 15th, 2007 12:56 PM |
| p.s. lisa shutup you sound obese get yaself a kfc and smile ↑ |
| Name: PippaLou | Date: Oct 23rd, 2007 12:42 PM |
Can I ask you something .....
"What is your background like?"
Because certain background pressure teenages and children younger into these kinds of things.
It is shocking but just remeber you are not the only parent who has been through this.
Also you say your 13 year old WROTE about oral sex..she may have not preformed it, just fantasied about it. But whatever the case do not get mad at her this will just upset her.
I have also got something to say about you reading her diary, i do suggest consulting her about the things she wrote but telling her you have read her diary will cause her to break down, this is HER diary, she will feel batrayed that you read it, She will feel upset, etc...
Yours
Rebecca
15 x ↑ |
| Name: caucajun32 | Date: Feb 5th, 2008 11:07 PM |
Ever consider, she wrote that because she knew you have been reading her diary ?
If she is having sx at what ever level, why do so many parents forget what it was like to be a teen, if you didn't want to know what a boy's penis felt and looked like there was something wrong with you. She just acted on it.
I have a seven year old daughter and there is no doubt in my mind that with her current personality, she will be having sex before 14 years old. She's her mother's daughter, very, very, independant, and no one can tell her sh_t ! She does what she wants.
Get over it, no one can stop a kid from having sex if they want it. You may be able to keep boys away, but what about her girlfriends at sleep overs, or trips to the mall. If she wants sex she will have it. ↑ |
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