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My name is Katja and i live in Amsterdam, Holland. I became pregnant when I was 13 by an 18 year old I was seeing at the time. I decided to take responsibility and gave birth to my beautiful baby girl, Zaia. I have no contact with her father. I am now 16 and despite being on birth control am 3 months pregnant with my second child. I now live with my boyfriend Rob (20) of 2 years who is very supportive and a great father to Zaia, but I have not had the nerve to tell my family yet. I am also struggling to kick my drug habit. Living where we do, it is not easy but I want to give my child good health. My boyfriend would like to stop but is finding it too hard. He has a stable job and is loyal and excited about his baby, but I really want him to try and stop with me. Having drugs around the house makes it really difficult for me to stay clean. I am worried for my children. I am not worried about cannabis as it is very much the culture here and I will bring my kids up to appreciate it in a healthy, stable way, but do not want them to experience the same life of addiction to harder drugs that I have. I love Rob and have no intention of leaving him, but how can I get him to try and get sober with me...? I also need to find away to tell my parents that they are going to be 36 and 38 year old grandparents....of two. I would appreciate any advice. Thank you. ↓
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| Name: tia | Date: Sep 29th, 2005 4:19 PM |
| i know how you feel. i have a 13 month old son and im 6 months pregnant with another baby and im only 16. tell your family then go to a treatment center. tell rob he has to get sobber for the kids he'll understand. wont he? email me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: hopeful in florida | Date: Nov 7th, 2005 11:53 AM |
| cannabis as it is very much the culture here -- are you kidding when pregnant you can not do this thier is no study on its long term affect on children they may enter this world looking fime but no so, try to get clean hurry. do you have drug rehab where you are ? send you parents a letter with a pair of booties stating that you hope they will be supportive of thier new grand child that will be arriving in 6 months. and tell them that you love them it never hurts to tell people whenyou love them. If your dear boy friend doesnt get sober with you then you may need to leave. it will be hard but neccesssary. good luch ↑ |
| Name: Katja | Date: Nov 13th, 2005 12:06 PM |
| thank you...I didnt mean i am not worried about smoking cannabis while pregnant...I know I can't do that...that is part of the problem; im finding it difficult. I just meant that I am not worried about rob smoking cannabis as most people do here. I have told my parents I am pregnant again...they weren't so thrilled, my dad is disapointed and worried for me but my ma is being somewhat supportive. Rob is still trying to get clean..he has lost his job and looking for a new one. this is starting to worry me. Thank you for your support..I appreciate it. ↑ |
| Name: abbigail | Date: Dec 19th, 2005 1:48 PM |
| this is verry bad getting pregnant at only 13 years of age but then again i cant say much i was 13 when i fell pregnant with a 21 yeat old ↑ |
| Name: bianca | Date: Jan 4th, 2006 3:48 AM |
| first i would just like to congratulate you and your boyfriend because you both have realized that you have problem and want to start. i was in your shoes once but i also had the support to get me through. the only thing that saved me was getting pregnant and i have not used since then. the last worry is telling your parents about your new one, thats a blessing even at your age. you need to worry about staying healthy for the kids. please seek help. best wishes [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: hunter | Date: Jan 19th, 2006 7:50 PM |
| are u black write back bye ↑ |
| Name: james | Date: Feb 2nd, 2006 9:41 AM |
| find a new boy frend and no sex move to england were you get better help ↑ |
| Name: cheerelle | Date: Feb 11th, 2006 4:47 PM |
| Name: baz | Date: Feb 18th, 2006 5:58 PM |
| hi any girls add me on msn [email protected] plz ↑ |
| Name: jhom | Date: Mar 21st, 2006 6:30 AM |
| Name: Lisa | Date: Mar 31st, 2006 3:55 PM |
| Honey drugs are drugs canabis included!Honestly,I think you should give up both your current child and your newborn when it comes to more mature ,responsible ADULTS who can better provide for your children and raise them in a drug-free environment.As far as your non-concern for (culture canabis) ,look where that (harmless drug) has gotten you and your man!!!Maybe someday when you grow-up you will be ready for children but you should certainly NOT have them now.You cant take care of yourself and you have a drug problem which I can only imagine which one!?(Or two....) Do your children a favor and give them a chance at a better life by giving them to someone alot more mature ,older,responsible,and wiser.Because honey,your just a baby yourself and look what kind of life youre living.Oh and as well as birth control that didnt work, might I suggest using a condom as well? Better yet you should abstain from sex altogether until youre older and responsible and off drugs.Dont you realize your baby could be born with problems due to your drug use????Get a clue girl!!! ↑ |
| Name: ShelbeLynn15 | Date: Apr 23rd, 2007 7:19 PM |
| Hey my name is shelbe i am 15 and i am doing a research paper on teen pregnancy could you answer a few ?'s. everything will be keep confindential if you would like. thanks shelbe ↑ |
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