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Name: mmmom2425

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Someone out there has to help me. I will try to make this short. I am at my end with this situation- My son is always been quiet but now that he is a teen it has turned to silence. All I want is a hello in the morning, a smile now and then, thank you once in a while. This latest event wasnt even my fault- He is interrested in this girl and he spends a lot of time on AIM chatting with her. Somehow he is convinced I am spying on him- our computer picked up some of his conversation and he is convinced I did it- I confess I would love to have a window into his world but I did not. I gave him llife, I love him with all my heart and soul but he hates me even more now and I did not do this. I would never do that to him, I was an only child and my mother did the " read my diary " thing and I know how that feels. I was bound and determined not th have history repeat itself but through this frickin technology my life is ruined. Will this ever get better? Will I have to suffer this till I die- I truely am in pain and I am desperate for advice from someone who went through their children hating them.

HELP ME PLEASE!! ↓

Name: anna-nicole | Date: Apr 12th, 2006 7:17 PM

he will get over it, i promise. it will just take time, he is going through alot of changes right now.how did he find out, and how did your computer pick up his conversation//??? ↑

Name: Lisa | Date: Apr 12th, 2006 11:42 PM

They say if your child never says he hates you then you havent done your job!I would take the computer away and tell him when he acts like a human being and can have a normal conversation with you then maybe he can have it back! ↑

Name: joanna | Date: Apr 13th, 2006 6:41 AM

ji completely agree with the person above me =) ↑

Name: KADEGEH HYNES | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 9:46 PM

MY SON IS AN IDOT ↑

Name: KADEGEH HYNES | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 9:47 PM

MY SON IS AN IDOT. ↑

Name: shamu | Date: Apr 24th, 2006 6:45 PM

he will get over it. ↑

Name: katelin | Date: Apr 29th, 2006 12:23 AM

i feel for you now and always look this happened to me and my son and we grew appart as time went on. so quickly do something before its to late just chat to him about what is going on in his life, ask how school is and ask if he wants to go bowling or other fun activities. cause im sure that he is scared to talk to you aswell. good luck mmmom2425 ↑

Name: Joey | Date: Apr 29th, 2006 1:50 AM

Hello, Im a teen my self in grade 11. I went though a phase from grade 9-10 Where I didn't talk to my parents. And I never hated my parent's, I needed room to learn what life is myself. During that time I was just hanging with friends...and the thing which puzzled me was to think my mom thought I was on drugs. These kid's I was hanging out with were kind, nice, and they were clean, we even chatted about how doing drugs is not the best thing.
I see it this way, an army sargent can train their troops and give them the skills they need to fight the battle. The sargent can't be out with them in the battle, all as the sargent can hope is that the troops learned from the training.
You as a parent half to raise your children right and teach them the skills they need to go through life. After that...theirs not much you can do but hope they have the skills nessary. And let them be on the battle field...they will learn. ↑