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| Name: Burn4Me, | Date: Jan 13th, 2007 11:01 PM |
| sorry i forgot bout other things, i always feel low, and down as if im gonna cry their and then like right now but i dunno... i cant tell her cause i idnt write him an xmas card, and my mum kept having ago at me syaing " WHY WHATS YOUR PROBLEM " well the only cards i found were for dads and he aint my dad, he didnt get me one he ddnt even put it up with his others. Im scared that shell chuck me out aswell, i feel like everyone hates me and i was unwanted. I just hate my life right now i got 3 brothers but their in their 20's and dont live at home. But i know one of them always takes the piss outta mike ( mums bf ) : ) I just wish all this crap in my life didnt happen. I need a way of dealing with my tears and my anger ↑ |
| Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Jan 14th, 2007 10:54 PM |
| You're a casualty of war! Your parents sound like they're being selfish and self-centered. Getting along with step-parents is always difficult, but they should be making more effort. Please try to talk to your mum - she probably doesn't know how you feel and wouldn't imagine that you could feel this bad over this issue. If this isn't possible then is there a school counsellor that you could talk to or perhaps one of your brothers? How do they feel about what's going on? Could you possibly go and live with one of them whilst your parents are sorting themselves out? Do you have any grandparents or aunts/uncles who may be able to talk to your mum or dad. Your parents should be putting you first in their lives, but it sounds like they're caught up in relationship crap! I'm sure that they love and care about you, they're just blinkered. Please try not to hurt yourself - that's not the way. You need to find someone to talk to? If you're in the UK you can call Childline who may be able to point you in the right direction to some help and support. You shouldn't have to deal with any of this alone. ↑ |
| Name: marija | Date: Jan 15th, 2007 4:32 AM |
| Dont harm yourself!!!...there is no sense to it. Do you think your parents will take more notice of you? the only person your hurting is yourself!!! Your parents seem to be only thinking of themselves...probably because all the other kids have left the nest, and you may seem independant enough?...Youre not...and they need to know this... Have you tried telling them how you feel...speak to them straight up...Do you love me or even like me?...get the answers you are seeking, rather than living in the hell you seem to be in...dont wait to feel the love if thats what youre hoping for, it may be that they just think you know the answer...if you are not feeling loved then they are not doing their jobs as parents!! Tell them this...both mother and bf ...and father and gf together. It may help your relationship with the bf / gf's. What about moving in with one of your brothers???? just a p.s "Wanna drink" Id say "yer please" his response " dont you mean Yes plz Dad im not etting you one till you say it " why do you think thats trying to be big...could you possibly see it as teaching you proper grammar...i do it to all my kids...i dont like to be grunted at even if they have said please (although noted i think its great you said 'please') ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Jan 15th, 2007 5:25 PM |
| Can you go live with a grandparent or something? ↑ |
| Name: Burn4Me, | Date: Jan 15th, 2007 9:33 PM |
| To Atomic - Thanks for your reply, i would like to live with my brothers but they live outside of where i live, and id have to take trains to school, and i like school only time i get to see my friends, and yer there is a councillor at my school but she rings up and tells the parents, my mate she was upset about her mum being in hospital, and she told her dad and i know shed ring up my mum and say this to her. To Marija - Thankyou for replying, It wernt him saying daddy it was the way he said it, very scarstic, and thats the tip of the ice berg. And like if i told my mum hes got the mouth of lion, one time she saw me kissing a boy outside school, and by 5:00 EVERYONE knew, my nan, my auntie, If i tell her something shell blurt it anyone. ----------------------- ------------------------------ At the moment im just trying to get through school, and then get a degree in photography, art and fashion designing. I think i came on here mostly to vent and it feels better now but the problems still their. Some days i hate him the next i think look on his good sides, but i dont get on with him he lieks completly different things, he makes jokes about gay people and my best friend hes gay, he loves football i hate it, its perthetic people get murdered over a game. But im just tyring to make it one day at a time now. ↑ |
