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whats up every1? im 17 yrs old and my 18 yr old bf already has a 2 yr old son with another girl. they was young and dumb and didnt know where unprotected would lead to. me and my bf has a connection out this world. not only is he my man but he's my bestfriend. but now he wants a baby with me. but im a baby myself and i dont think workin at the mall is gonna be a proper life for a baby. i havent graduated from high school yet. but my man is very responsible so i know that we could make it but im still young. should i give in or just go bout my happy motherless life? ↓
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| Name: to jovan | Date: Apr 18th, 2006 8:03 PM |
| Tell him what you told us. "I;m a baby myslef, should i give in or just go bout my happy motherless life" If he really loves you he will understand. ↑ |
| Name: Lisa | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 1:11 AM |
| Dear Jovan,please dont do it. You will probably regret it later if you go through with it.You are only 17.You have an entire life to have kids.Use this time to be a kid.You are still in highschool and working too,thats a great thing!All you have to worry about right now is yourself. Your boyfriend already has a child by someone else and are they together now? NO! Dont think the same thing wouldnt happen to you because it very well could.Having a baby with him now means the chances are great that you will most likely end up raising that baby alone.Be smart,youre on the right track so far ,dont get pregnant at this time in your life,you will find it a huge mistake.If your boyfriend is so wonderful,he will have no problem waiting until your 25-30 for you to have his child.If he cant wait then hes not worth being with at all.Please dont ruin your life,youre too young.Go to college, graduate,get a good job.Make sure you can take care of yourself! Yes,yourself.Dont be dependent on a man to take care of you.Be your own dependence.If and when YOU can support YOURSELF AND A BABY then think about having a child but not until then.If you dont care to go to college fine but keep working and build yourself a savings that belongs to no one but you. There is plenty of time to have kids but not when your a teenager,please dont do it!! ↑ |
| Name: jovan | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 1:33 PM |
| thank u so much lisa. i really did need that encouragement. i know that everything u said is true. im not stupid or blinded by what my guy says but i get curious sometimes. but what u basically told me is that i have my whole life to have kids but now isnt the good time because i have to find myself in order to know i am or what im getting myself into. im gonna take your advice lisa and thank u again. ↑ |
| Name: Carol | Date: Apr 26th, 2006 4:34 PM |
Is pregnant what you want?
Don't do what he says.Think about the dangers of getting pregnant in that age.Think.Thats all you have to do.I had my first daughter when I was 16 and it's not fun.I can't go out and hang out with my friends because I had to stay and look after my baby.Being a child and a teenager is the best of time of your life.Don't be old when your still young.Have fun and when your older think of that . ↑ |
| Name: Maria | Date: Apr 27th, 2006 1:02 PM |
| yes because a baby is alot of work! ↑ |
| Name: jj | Date: Apr 27th, 2006 2:41 PM |
| Hey gurl am 17 to and i have a baby on the way by my 19 year old boyfriend. And he wanted and i did to but i didn't konw it would happen so fast u know but gurl i can't tell u what to do but do what u think is right for u gurl and my boyfriend has a 1 year old son and when i have my baby next year his son would be 2 thats crazy ↑ |
| Name: Eileen | Date: Apr 28th, 2006 6:38 AM |
| Don't do it. Finish your education. Find out what the world is about. Your bf is selfish. Why does he want another baby? Does it make him feel like more of a man? Do you spend time with his little boy? Do you like it? Are you ready for the responsibility? There are a lot of questions you need to ask yourself. Good luck. ↑ |
| Name: jovan. | Date: May 1st, 2006 11:07 PM |
| i didnt write that last message for ellen. someone used my name. ↑ |
| Name: ciara | Date: May 16th, 2006 5:18 PM |
hey ..my names ciara im only 14 i cant wait i just want to hv a baby now somthing to love n care for dats all mine .. i no im only a kid my self but my mum died n my dad n all i want is a baby do u think dar is any hing rong help ??
[email protected] add me if u hv msn ↑ |
| Name: wilona | Date: Jun 3rd, 2006 10:55 PM |
| if he thinks ure dumb if u dont oh well. i was pregnant at 9 for thinkin he would stay with me . dont do it. 97% chance he'l denie the baby or leave u ↑ |
| Name: meg | Date: Jun 7th, 2006 7:13 PM |
| You have your whole life ahead of you! dont give in to him.. your smart im sure you will make the right decision. ↑ |
| Name: Farrah | Date: Jun 23rd, 2006 6:02 PM |
| Well it would be a good thing but your still young and you want to provide a great life for that baby... you need to get your career started first. Hi im farrah and im 15 yrs old i just found out yesterday im pregnant by my 17yr old boyfriend and we both love each other but we are both scared we wont be able to provide it everything she/he will need.. the last grade i finished was 9th grade.... im so scared.. so i hope you will make the right decision. Good Luck.. ↑ |
| Name: adriana | Date: Jul 9th, 2006 2:20 AM |
| im pregnant at 17 what do i do ↑ |
| Name: DON"T DO IT! | Date: Jul 18th, 2006 1:36 AM |
Are you crazy? Tell this guy to take a LOOONG walk away from you! You have your whole life ahead of you and plenty of time to have babies. Why throw your life away?
You are 100% right - you ARE a baby yourself. ↑ |
| Name: kris | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 5:38 AM |
| umm u need 2brke up with him and find someone else ↑ |
| Name: just say NO | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:26 AM |
| dont so it. you will find someone better who will respect your decisions. let him live in poverty with 9 kids, dont let him drag you in . i know it may be hard to tell him off, but do you really want to ruin your life? ↑ |
| Name: twostepsback | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 1:57 PM |
You are way too yoing, you don't need to do that to yourself jsut for him.
what if you break up?
it's not something you should do for someone else because its all on you love.
i'm fifteen and as much as I adore kdis, I don't want one yet, or for a long time.
theres so much life left for you, don't tie yourself down so soon. ↑ |
| Name: Ari | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 3:11 PM |
| Jovan, honey, it sounds like your boyfriend is still 'young and dumb.' You've got a good head on your shoulders to be thinking about this when he's pressuring you into it and not after the fact, so please DON'T GIVE IN. I think you need to sit down and tell him exactly what you posted here, and if he keeps pressuring you to have a baby with him, you're going to need to move on with your life--without him. ↑ |
| Name: Gone trhough it | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 7:49 AM |
| Oh god.. Please no! MY sister did the same thing.. he will leave you, and then you have to turn into a slut for money, you can't do ANYTHING about it at all and ect.. Don't.. ↑ |
| Name: Kat | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 4:53 PM |
| If he already has a child, then why would be want another? You should probably at least graduate from high school and get into college first. Reevaluate after that. Good luck, darling. ↑ |
| Name: Mweeble | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 9:32 PM |
If your bf wants a baby and you don't, tell him. And if he forces you, get the hell out of the relationship.
Do not, repeat DO NOT give in. Remember it takes 2 cells to make that foetus! ↑ |
| Name: granny2be | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 9:59 PM |
Please don't do it. If he loves you he will respect your decision not to have a baby before YOU feel ready. I was 17 when my son was born (unplanned), I was married a few months before he was born. My husband and I are still together, but now at 36 I am just getting to the point in life where I can have the career I really want (which I only figured out 2 years ago). If he is pressuring you for a baby maybe he is afraid that is the only way he can keep you in his life. I love my children, but if I had it to do over again I would have waited.
Bless you and be strong! ↑ |
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