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Im 16 yrs old and many of my friend are either pregnant or already had a baby. but its not their lifes that has influenced me. Ive been going out with my bf for over 2 yrs now and our love is stronger than ever. I can truely say im in love with him and its not just teenage puppy love. i know for some of you its not convincing but its true. Iam a very responsible teen and he is also. He does everything he says hes going to do and is great with kids. Before i met him i didnt even think about having a baby but now I suddenly want one. If i had one, i would be able to care for it...and not my parents like some teens do. I would beable to provide all motherly things for it. But the fact still remains that "im too young" I know I am and thats the problem. none of my friends have any problems with their babies. Im willing to stick by my baby and raise it. I have taken a child development class in school so i know just about everything from decision making,to pregnancy, to caring for it. Im so confused and lost, im not sure what i should be thinking because most teen pregnancys arent planned. What should i do, please help ↓
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| Name: wowwtf | Date: Mar 12th, 2007 8:40 PM |
| uhhh i would wait until you can actually get a drivers license maybe leagally drink hell.... mabey even wait until you can legally get married... seriously is everyone on this websight fucking retarded ↑ |
| Name: tubbybubble | Date: Mar 13th, 2007 8:39 AM |
| your still so young...to think about wanting a baby. and babygurl, let me tell you something, being a mother is not written down in a book or in any class you take. ↑ |
| Name: Emma | Date: Mar 13th, 2007 5:39 PM |
how are you going to support a child finalcly? [sp] what about somewere to live how are you going to afford tha? have you even thought about that?
like tubby says being a motheris not written in a book or class.
its god damn hard work. ↑ |
| Name: chantel1 | Date: Mar 14th, 2007 10:55 PM |
| yeah well all men are angels in thier partners eyes, however... most of them will run at the sound of you being pregnant! you are young and trust me you don't want a baby just yet!! just think of it like this... you know all those days where you just hop in the car with ur b/f & go to the shops, well forget just jumping in, you have to get the nappy bag ready, bottles, if u don't breast feed, or a breastfeeding towl if you do then you've got to put the nappy bag in the car then the baby and then clip up baby, then get in go to shops. then alll of those hugs you get and time alone with your b/f, well forget that once you have a baby there will never be a minute when ur alone, those nice cuddles in bed huh they're interuppted with crying, nappy changes bubby in bed with you teething ect ect ect. look i love my daughter to bits, but yes it is hard work, and there are times i wish i had 5mins to myself but i don't, and i agree with everyone else there is no instructions, or classes to help or anyone else coz when you do go home at the end of the day/night it's just you , you have to rely on. and your parner might stick around, but he's going to have to work and at the end of the day they don't want to change nappies ect, so please think very hard before you make a decision about this, and if you do want to consider this and aren't sure what he thinks why don't you ask him or tell him your pregnant to see his reaction, then you'll really know how he feels good luck=) ↑ |
| Name: madiduff123 | Date: Mar 16th, 2007 10:56 PM |
| Trust me girl you dont wanna have a baby you need to watch Maury ↑ |
| Name: Amy19UK | Date: Mar 20th, 2007 4:58 PM |
Hey i'm 19 and i've been with my bf for 2 years and trying to convince people that we are in love was so much hard work he told me that he loved me i was his life and he would never leave me blah blah blah, then last year out of nowhere it was over but i was ready to marry him and have his kids and everything and he told me that was what he wanted so just wait a little longer and just make sure that ur relationship with him is solid first, because as much as u may think that u are ready to be a mother the last thing u want to deal with is being a single mum and trying to get over a split with the love of ur life. trust me it isnt pretty
I hope u find what ur looking for
Good Luck ↑ |
| Name: lucy_x | Date: Mar 22nd, 2007 11:09 AM |
| I know exactly how your feeling,im 16 and im 34weeks pregnant & ..it was unplanned.I always said i wanted to marry before i have children.. but the thought of having an abortion made me physically sick so i decided to keep her.Now all my friends from school are falling pregnant as if its a new trend,its not,If i could turn back time id have waited alot longer.Thankfully my partner has stood by me and we feel as though we've made the right desicion,I just hope you've thought it through properly.At times it can be stressful.. Im just awaiting my house right now and it makes me upset,Just thinking about the money sides of things and my partner working so much..I'm here if you would like any advice anyway.But i hope you think things through seriously,Get a good job and Go places Because once you've had a baby your life's on hold,not ruined. X x ↑ |
| Name: chantel1 | Date: Mar 23rd, 2007 7:45 AM |
| hi there again, my step daughter is your age, and whilst living with her other mother got kicked out and went tolive with her b/f. they were together for tow years, moved in together, and have a guess what? the story goes like this.... every 5mins they were apart they'd text each other, they loved each other so-ooooo much, and yeah she was good enough to screw, but the minute he found out she was pregnant he dumped her!!!!! so just think of that!!!! now she's a single mum, with no education,job or even the slightest set up or ready to support this child, now she's going to centrelink where she'll spend at least the next 5 years getting shit money from until bubs goes to school andthen she'll spend the rest of her life flipping burgers for somone:( we tried to warn her, set her up in a good home but no lets screw the fuckwit coz "HE LOVES ME" BUT I DON"T KNNOW HOW I'M GOING TO RAISE THIS CHILD???? BUT I'm READY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! no way, did you pretend you were pregnant? go on fake it hell get a preg test put two lines on it with a pen, and see how long he sticks around, there at least you'll get a warning, at first, oh yeah and then if you persist, don't say you weren't warned!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: peaches37 | Date: Mar 25th, 2007 6:05 PM |
| You need to understand your living in a fairytale, and yea your in love shit happens, and if you have a baby your stuck with for 18yrs. No prom, no soical time. Having a baby that young is retarded honey I was a teenage mother and believe me if I could go back I would redo alot of crap and having a baby is one. If you 2 love each other then the love should get you threw high school and college so you 2 can have money 2 support the baby. The only job u can get know is minimum wage and that ain't gonna pay the bills ↑ |
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