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Name: Linda

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I have a 15 year old girl that is in 10th grade in High school. She is in cheerleading and she is a "C" average student. She is a over all "Good Girl". We thoguht we had a good realationship up to yeasterday!
We found out for whatever stupid reason, she took a nude picture of herself and send it to a sinior boy on her telephone! Well now everyone has seen this picture in school! She is very sorry and embareased but the damage is done!
My husband and I are at a lost. Don't know what to do or say! Don't know what to do to fix it? Any advise? ↓

Name: caucajun32 | Date: Feb 1st, 2008 7:54 PM

God help you and your husband if you honestly think of your daughter as an angel.

Your daughter is a normal 15 year old that wants has hormones that are saying she needs to be having sex.

She also has the teenage lovebug, she wants this guy to notice her. Your daughter wants to be in Loooooooove!

While teens can't often tell the difference between the desire for love and the separate desire for sex, the two are so confussing for teens.

Humans are designed to start haveing sex at 10 to 13 years old, this is the natural order of things. As we have had the ability to not die so young as in centuries past, we the adults have said, "oh no not my child, theres no way you are going to be having sex till your an adult".

Who the heck came up with that hogwash ? Let them screw there little brains out, before they have to go out into the real world and get screwed by society and corparate America.

Forcing kids to not have sex is "Cruel and Unusual" punishment. It's an assault on the individual rights of a human being.

As a parent, you may think you have the right to know everything about your daughter, yet if she were pregnant she can go to a school counselor and get an abortion arrainged and you wouldn't even have a right that would stand up in a court of law as to whether you have a right to know about it. You don't ! The school doesn't have to tell you anything.

As for bringing the "senior" into the picture, like it's his fault your daughter made the deceision to hit the send button on her cell phone. You could have just said the she "sent the picture to a friend", yet you cant' even accept that she is the only one at fault for sending the picture in the first place.

Hey your daughter is totally normal and there is not a darn thing wrong with her sharing a nude pic of herself, the problem is with all us adults not being able to accept that our sons and daughters are sexual creature's by nature, and all the control we try to place on them. ↑

Name: lindalu | Date: Feb 1st, 2008 10:50 PM

Sorry Linda theres nothing you can do the damage is done, the only thing that will fix it is time. Just hope she has learned a lesson and will not make the same mistake again. ↑