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Name: Helena

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My teenage son has met a girl who is five monthd pregnant and he has somehow come to the disession,that he has to marry her and help her bring up her baby.
He has told me that he dosent love her but he cares about her a lot and that maybe one day he will love her.
The problem is that he wants to drop out of school and get a job to care of her.
While i think what he is doing is very honerable i want him to stay at school.
Should my husband and i let them move in with us? ↓

Name: Lynne n | Date: Jun 24th, 2006 9:34 AM

? dont know sorry! ↑

Name: Helena | Date: Jun 24th, 2006 1:44 PM

you shut up i am new here and asking for advice how dare,Maybe your life is bad.
START YOUR OWN POST! ↑

Name: Helena | Date: Jun 24th, 2006 1:45 PM

Oh and by the way that is no way to speak to someone the only slag around here is you. ↑

Name: Helena | Date: Jun 25th, 2006 7:19 PM

? ↑

Name: Lynne n | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 5:14 PM

Please tell us what happened i would love to know? ↑

Name: Lizzi | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 7:44 PM

If it's not his kid,keep your son in school and don't let her move in. Why does he have such an interest in a pregnant woman that he doesn't love anyway? Thats odd. ↑

Name: Layne | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 8:20 PM

No dont let him do it. how old is your boy? ↑

Name: Helena | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 9:20 PM

I think that he cares about her a lot even though he doesnt love.
Its silly really he has always brought home strays even from a young it uesd to be cats and dogs but never a pregnant girl!
He is 15 she i now six months gone and we still havent come to any kind of agreement!
My self and my husband really dont know what do to about this,i cry most days when i think about the kind of life he could have finishing school for one would be good! ↑

Name: Layne | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 11:29 PM

Helena he isnt of legal age you have all the control. You can stop this. you are legaly responsible for him till 18 some states 19. tell him no. This isnt what is best for him or for her. To be honest it is staturtory rape to have sex with a 15 year old. Im not saying they are but you have that law in your corner. ↑

Name: Lizzi | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 5:11 PM

My sons 15 and I would jerk a quick knot in his rear if he ever had dilusional thoughts of dropping out and hooking up with a pregnant girl when the baby wasn't even his! I'd snap him back to reality so fast his head would spin! You need to tell that girl she needs to put her hooks into someone else because your boy's off limits! ↑

Name: Ari | Date: Jul 30th, 2006 5:28 AM

Is there any possibility that the baby is your son's? It doesn't make much sense for him to feel such a strong obligation to take care of this girl and her child. If I were you, I would explain to him that caring and loving are two different things. Just because you care for someone doesn't necessarily mean that love is something that will follow. ↑