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Name: Hilary

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I have a daughter that is 15 year old and her boy firend is not a nice boy at all. I know that he raped her because I was at the store with her older brother and he was there with his friends and was talking about how she wanted him to stop and she started crying. When my son got home and asked her about it she look up with a very scared look in her face and said that she had know clue what he was talking about. I dont know what to do because she wont talk to me or her father or she brother. She tells her brother everything and she will not talk about it. ↓

Name: Lisa | Date: Apr 9th, 2006 7:32 PM

Have your husband kick his ass!! (the boyfriend) If he is older have him arrested! ↑

Name: Shaedy | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 1:15 PM

Leave her for some time,then when she away with it .She must probably be able to talk. ↑

Name: Maybe | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 3:39 PM

Maybe she just wanted him to stop because it hurt...maybe she wasnt raped she might of actually wanted sex but didnt realise that the first time can hurt. ↑

Name: chelsie | Date: Apr 21st, 2006 2:29 AM

maybe she is scared that if she told u who did it then he might do it again or maybe she really did want it
teens are out there sometimes ↑

Name: cassie | Date: May 3rd, 2006 10:46 PM

i read what u wrote and i say just leave her alone but ask her bout it once in awhile cuz i kno how it feels to be raped and it hunts u for tha rest of ur life so if she wants to talk bout it she will let her cum to u dont keep buggin her cuz then she will never tell u ↑

Name: sally | Date: May 6th, 2006 1:56 AM

Is she still seeing him? The poor girl, I would have approached him in the store when i heard him speaking about your daughter like that. He sounds like such a looser, I agree with Lisa but I would get her brother to kick his arce. ↑

Name: ann | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 10:55 PM

give her time
maybe it did not happen ↑

Name: rain | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 1:05 PM

Hilary,
Make an appointment and take your daughter to a rape counselor. There are units set up by women who have been raped, and they would be better for her to speak to. They are confidential and would help advice the family how to handle this. Do not leave her on her own to figure this out. ↑

Name: Ari | Date: Jul 30th, 2006 5:41 AM

She needs to know that she is supported regardless of whether or not it was actually rape. I agree with whoever suggested the rape counselor. If he did rape her, I strongly recommend seeking prosecution. However, it sounds like right now all you have is heresay (her brother heard it from the boyfriend and his friends and told you, correct?). You need to let her know you care, and she can talk to you about anything. Take some time to sit down and chat with her, or take her out to see a movie she's interested in. Don't necessarily bring up anything to do with sex--just tell her you're there for her no matter what, and she can come to you anytime she has a problem with anything. If the offer's there and she's ready, she'll open up to you. ↑

Name: Layne | Date: Jul 31st, 2006 4:24 PM

get the counseling like rain said. TODAY! ↑