Have yu ever woken and just wonted it to be all over ??
I have so many times and now i wish it was, ive had some tough times ( sorry if it sound slike im blowing my own horn ), and im tired of it all. ↓
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| Name: rain | Date: Sep 12th, 2006 10:02 PM |
| Yea, I have felt that way, more than once, that is how I know it will pass. I have great moments where I think back, and say wow, if I wasn’t here right now, I would have never known how great life can be. What is going on right now? How old are you? ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Sep 12th, 2006 10:48 PM |
| Hey cuts, tell us what is going on, so we can help. ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Sep 13th, 2006 6:00 AM |
| Name: CutsBruises | Date: Sep 13th, 2006 3:22 PM |
Sorry, i signed off after this..
im only 14. ↑ |
| Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Sep 13th, 2006 5:29 PM |
| Yeah, I feel like this every morning. ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Sep 13th, 2006 6:44 PM |
| Well, are you feeling better today, or it it still bad. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 2:10 AM |
really atomic snowflake. I would miss you. I like your debates.
you say things that are really on your mind. I respect this. ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 3:19 AM |
| Layne, dont say I didnt warn you. ↑ |
| Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 11:13 AM |
Why should you have to warn Layne about me? Do you think I'm a loose cannon or something???
I do feel like sh*t everymorning and quite often wish that I wasn't here, but that's another story. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 11:41 AM |
| have you tried medication? I was on paxil for a year to help with axienty after my stroke it did wonders ↑ |
| Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 12:30 PM |
Yeah, I've just gone onto Cipralex, but it hasn't kicked in yet. I still feel like sh*t. I was on Paxil, but I didn't like the side effects - it wrecks your sex life.
I didn't know that you'd had a stroke. Have you recovered okay? ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 2:58 PM |
| I have felt that way many times but the next day I always felt differently,for the better. The blues will pass. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 3:01 PM |
| yes I was very fortunate. It affected my right side. I was impared for about 3 months but thankfully recovered. It was a bleed. No explanation why...Dont do drugs,smoke or drink much. so its just one of those things. It really did me in. I was a nervous wreck so the paxil helped. I know about the sex life it wasnt good. also I gain alot of weight. I didnt like that either. I was glad to get off. But I really dont think I had a choice at the time. and it got me through. You should see improvement in about 3-4 weeks. It does take time on mood stableizers.I think I noticed improvement in about 2 weeks. I know take omega 3 and multi vitamin. That helps everything Im not kidding. my son and daughter take omega for brain function. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 3:05 PM |
| we are all adhd type. so the omega helps that. when I was on omega I noticed my mood was lifted as well. ↑ |
| Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 4:27 PM |
| Yeah, I've just started taking Omega 3 Fish Oil too. Ginkygo Biloba is supposed to help as well. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 5:39 PM |
| On the Adhd forum a gal said that her doctor told her that a multi vitamin and omega vitamin could free her son of meds. or cut the dose down. I put kate on them last year because she was boarderline add. Im not putting her on meds unless absulutley have to. She got along better after around 2 months. She is on them now but has forgotten here and there Im passing them out now not relying on her to do it. I think the omegas are the best discovery for alot of things. ↑ |
| Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 6:44 PM |
I've tried the fish oil with my son. It does help, but I suspect he has ODD. He's very, very difficult and it's a lot of hard work caring for him. He can be very good and is very intelligent, but I think he just plays me up sometimes.
I'm taking him to see the doctor soon as I can't stand the arguing and saying "No" all the time to absolutely everything! It's exhausting at times.
I think it's best to keep off meds if possible, but sometimes these kids do need them - I'd love a normal family life. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 11:55 PM |
| OOOOOHHHHHH! I just typed a book and this damn thing said no duplicate post. Now I have to start over. GURRRRRRRR] ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Sep 15th, 2006 12:12 AM |
The stress from our children will cause major depression. This could be the reason behind yours. If your son needs meds for any behavior issue then I say go fast and get it done. There is no shame in it. You will be doing the whole family a favor. i useed to torture myself about the meds and the whole behavior issue and I still do sometimes when things go bad. But Ive been at this way to long to not know what Im tlking about. So I believe I am more construtive for mike with school. Our yaerly IEP meettings and so on.
But you know that stroke. It was my gift. because I was a total stressed out mess. I wonder if my stress didnt cause it. I say its a gift because I dont stress like that anymore. I handle what is in my control and I leave the rest up to our doctors and the school. I took it so personal I mean he is my boy and I tried to conceive him for 2 years. then then around one year something was wrong with him. he idnt make eye contact and the word no ment nothing. he cried when he went for drives. didnt like the baby swing at all. then as he went into toddler years no control at all. I hardly remember my daughters baby years because michael drained the whole family.
he is 11 now will be 12 next month. with medication we can work on homework and he is doing much much better in school. he went up 2 grade levels at school last year. He worked twice as hard as the other kids to be were he's at. during all his success he has to deal with being call retard and gay. stupid and being left out of most social interactions on the play ground. But I cant control other asshole kids with no manners. i do know this you Mom have to take care of your helth. because kids pick up the behavior you put out in the home. This is why I call my stroke a gift. I changed too. that changed the mood in the house for mike and even my husband. My mom always said the women sets the mood and I believe this is true. So please take care of yourself your family and we need you. ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Sep 15th, 2006 12:17 AM |
| also stay away from proccessed food and dyes especially red and yellow.I just dont make jello or kool aid. No hot dogs and pack his lunch. try these things for a week or 2 and see if you see improvement. mike can focuse with the meds but the elimination diet helps with mood. ↑ |
| Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Sep 15th, 2006 8:41 AM |
Yeah, I try to give him healthy, home-cooked food. We don't eat junk food - burgers, fries, etc. He also has a peanut allergy, so we can't really eat out. I don't give him fizzy pop drinks or things with lots of colours in. He mainly drinks water, milk and diluted high-juice. I cook a meal every day with fresh vegetables etc. but he doesn't really like fruit - I'm trying to encourage him.
I have fairly strong views when it comes to kids and food and I believe that kids should be given a healthy diet. The odd treat doesn't do any harm, but people seem to be relying on junk food all the time at the moment. Our government are encouraging people to be more responsible now and are realising that obese kids and heart disease are bad for society.
My son was assessed for ADHD a couple of years ago, but the assessment procedure just involved filling a questionnaire and a couple of chats - It wasn't very thorough and I feel that he's slipped through the net. There is definitely something wrong with him or we wouldn't be struggling so much. I'm going to try to get to see the doctor on Monday and have him seen privately if necessary. ↑ |
| Name: CutsBruises | Date: Sep 19th, 2006 8:29 PM |
| Soryr i havnt been on, busy with school work, Im feeling betetr somedays and really low others.. urghhh anyway..im just kind of twiddling with my hair now lol. ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Sep 20th, 2006 4:04 AM |
| Then you know, that no matter how bad some days get, there are always better ones. How long have you been this way? ↑ |
| Name: CutsBruises | Date: Sep 20th, 2006 3:05 PM |
Yer, for like nerly a year now..
i feel so much better when im with my friends..but when im at home with my dad i hate it i like going round my mums, cause shes..well i dunno. ↑ |
| Name: rain | Date: Sep 21st, 2006 5:28 AM |
| What are you doing to make it better? Are there things that make you feel better? ↑ |
| Name: CutsBruises | Date: Sep 21st, 2006 2:38 PM |
| ermm i try and go out more instead of sitting around getting stressed, and not taking ot my dad that seems to be helping. ↑ |
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