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Name: Elodie [ Original Post ] I'm pregnant and I've done the test heaps and it's definitley positive. I've not told my mom and I don't even know what to say. If I decide to have an abortion do you think she needs to know? She's quite ambitious and I somehow think that if I had an abortion she would just want me to move on anyway. However I can't see her being at all comfortable with me keeping it. She is also of the opinion that I've not had sex because she asked me outright before I went to Rhode Island with my boyfriend for the holidays and I said no and as fate would have it that was the first time we did. My boyfriend is the other problem. He got early acceptance to Princeton, which his parents were naturally ecsatic about. Then I got acceptance to Yale for next fall and they are about 3 hours apart and it all seemed fine until I found out. I told him because I was scared and he immediately began to say that he wouldn't go to college and that he'd come up the New Haven with me and that it would all work out. How the **** is that everything working out? His parents would probably lynch me. Would it be completely selfish of me to land a baby on him when right now he's about to do something he really needs? I mean in theory it all sounds lovely but in practice I'm 17 and I can't be a mom and go to college! I thought about maybe going with him to Princeton if I decided to keep it because it's not as if I would be able to go to school anyway. Does anyone have any advice? As you can see I have no idea where I'm headed in this mees. ↓

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Name: KC1420 | Date: Jul 8th, 2009 5:41 PM

have you thought about adoption as a choice? ↑

Name: beloved | Date: Jul 8th, 2009 8:18 PM

I really dont think you should have an abortion, but i also do not think you should keep the baby. By keeping the baby you have a chance of not going to school, and your guy might just walk out on you. But if you get an abortion you can heart your self. Im young(15) i think you should tell your mom you had sex and then in a few weeks tell her your pregnant, and let her talk to you.but do before its to late. God Bless !!!!! ↑

Name: India | Date: Jul 10th, 2009 8:16 PM

if you are thinking of adoption email me at myleigh1209@gmail.com ↑

Name: KC1420 | Date: Jul 14th, 2009 12:58 PM

if you are considering adoption please email me at kadusseau@hotmail.com KC ↑