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Name: JALEAH

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IM 17 YEARS OLD AND ME AND MY BF IS OF DIFFERENT RELIGIONS. WE'VE BEEN DATING FOR ALMOST 7 MONTHS BUT MY MOM DOESNT KNOW ABOUT HIM BECAUSE I KNOW THAT SHE WOULD DISAPPROVE. BUT HE IS THE PERFECT GUY FOR ME AND I LOVE HM SO MUCH. WHAT SHOULD I DO? PLEASE HELP ME. IM TIRED OF SNEAKING AND HIDING THINGS FROM MY MOM. HE'S A WONDERFUL GUY AND THEY'RE SO MUCH ALIKE. I KNOW THAT SHE WOULD LOVE HIM BUT HES NOT IN MY RELIGION. HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!! ↓

Name: t-mama | Date: Apr 25th, 2006 1:17 PM

i dont know what to tell you. but good luck ↑

Name: Monique | Date: Apr 25th, 2006 2:55 PM

Do what makes you happy try to experience both sides and maybe then you can compromise ↑

Name: d unit- mama | Date: Apr 25th, 2006 11:33 PM

Your stupid, how can you know what love is after only 7 months, Oh and btw, how the hell can you compromisse religions??? ↑

Name: tameka | Date: Apr 26th, 2006 1:00 PM

all people do is ask for help. if ya'll aint gone help nobody then y the hell is ya'll here!!!!!!! ↑

Name: Rox | Date: Apr 27th, 2006 4:53 AM

Jaleah,
I would tell your mom. She may not like you dating him but you are 17 now and just about old enough to choose who you want to date. If you come clean with her you won't feel guilty about hiding and you can be free to enjoy your relationship. I don't know that he will be the man you will be with forever b/c you are young and have many changes in life ahead of you, but you should be free to learn about different men/personalities. You are growing into your own woman and need to have those choices. Maybe if you present it to her in that manner she can understand a little better.

On another note religion can be a big factor in a relationship however it needs to be between you and him and what you both want to do and decide on. Religion is a very personnal choice not to be taken lightly in a relationship. That is probably why your mom is also so concerned. She has done her best to instill in you her beliefs, she needs to realize the choice is yours now though.

Sure it may cause an argument at first but if you explain to her that you don't want to hide things from her and you want to be open with her about growing/trust she may feel better too. ↑

Name: tameka | Date: Apr 27th, 2006 2:44 PM

I would also like to add that im a stupid nosy know it all garbage can. ↑

Name: JALEAH | Date: May 1st, 2006 11:10 PM

thank u every1. i'll give it a try and let u know what happened. IM SO SCARED!!! ↑

Name: YO! | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 10:56 PM

THAT WAS TO d- unit mama ↑

Name: to YO | Date: Jun 27th, 2006 6:34 PM

huh? ↑

Name: YO! | Date: Jun 30th, 2006 11:26 PM

I dont even know what I was talklin about??? ↑

Name: peaches 2 YO | Date: Jul 2nd, 2006 9:58 AM

lol u is some kind of crazy ↑

Name: Sarah | Date: Jul 2nd, 2006 12:27 PM

Your 17 now and your mam must get ready to face your decisions, it's your choice and your mam can't keep telling you what to do. Just face her, the worst she can do is have a shouting match with you if she loves you, she will understand. But if you are so desperate lie. But I would just face your mam if I was you . Good luck! x x ↑