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Name: ariel

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i'm a 13 year old girl and my mom is sometimes abusive. she's never severly hit me, but she's deffinatly tried. went to tae-kwon-do for 5 or more years and luckily i can duck and block... but i don't know how much longer i can bare. she says i'm a good girl, and the next thing i know the next day she's calling me a spoiled brat. i know mom's hate tones, but mom's, u were a teen once. u remember how hard it was. my mom just yells and yells and throws tantroms, big enough for me and my dad. i've always hoped he'd devorce her. because i'm one of the few girls who actually KNOWS she'd be atleast a little happier if her mom went away. sure shopping is fun with her, and she gives me money for food. does that make me spoiled for saying these things. i appreciate what she does, but she accuses my dad too. i don't know how he can stand it. i've considered running away sooooooooo many times. i need advice. mom's, please, i need advice! ↓

Name: shortie | Date: Jul 14th, 2006 4:42 AM

i say get a phsychiatrist ↑

Name: Jess_92 | Date: Jul 14th, 2006 8:52 AM

Well im not a mum, no where near, but i may be able to help ariel. I can relate my mum is just like yours and i hate it. It's good that your learnign to control her a bit better, but one day it may get out of control. WATEVER U DO, DONT TAKE CRAP FROM HER. dont let her abuse you. Do u have somewhere that u can go if things get out of hand? like an older friend or reletive? ur lucky u have ur dad, i dont have a dad, so ur lucky to have him there for support. If ur school has a coucillor i think u should go, if not ask ur dad if you can see one. (it mighht be a bit embarressing, but just say you relli need to talk to someone.) Have u tried talking to her? Sometimes in life u have to bute the bullet, speshly with mum's. Just agree with her. If she is like ur a dirty little pig, look at ur room. just say yes mum i'm sorry i'll try and keep it cleaner. If she's being completley unreasonable then maybe u can fight back, saying how u feel is always good, but not rudly. Like saying. "Mum i'm not a brat, ok! AND i really hate it when u call me that, cuz it's ruining my self esteem. Make her feel guilty, but dont be rude or mean. Mum's can smell a dead rat, so be careful and dont be to obvious. I;m sorry this happens to you, but please take my advice, as i have a mum who is extreamly abusive. She sometimes throws knives and plates at me. and she has broken he boyfriends ribs and arm and thumb..so take it from me darling, please use my advice!! ↑