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Name: Jess_92

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somone help! My mum is way to over protective. I'm 13, almost 14 and am very mature for my age. My mum won't let me do anything. She won't let me shave my legs, do anything to my hair(like die or streak), wear any make-up and she DIFINITLY won't let me go out with boys. I got in trouble for talking to a boy on the phone and i also got in trouble for going out with my girlfriend and her boyfriend. I thought of lying to her and just going behind her back, but i didnt want to be dishonest, so i told her that i went out with my friend and her bf and i get yelled at..?? HELP PLEASEEEEEEEE ↓

Name: Jess_92 | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 12:10 PM

please? DOSN'T ANYONE HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY?? ↑

Name: pj754 | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 1:03 PM

Your mom is very protective because she probably don't want you doing the things that she did when she was younger. She is trying to protect you from getting into trouble (like having sex with boys). Talk with your mom about giving you some responsibility. Have her give you a cell phone so that she can keep close contact with you. As far as shaving your legs, personally, I wouldn't be in such a hurry to do so. One of my friends never ever shaved her legs and you wouldn't be able to tell. Granted she had hair on her legs but it was just like what we have on are arms. Real fine, small blond hairs. Your mom probably feels your too young to streak or die your hair. She's afraid to let you grow up too soon. My daughter is going on 13 and I won't let her wear makeup either. Because, I don't want her to grow up too fast and I think she looks beautiful without it. Her natural completion is radiant. I'm sure your mom feels the same way. She probably won't allow you to die or streak your hair because color does dry out your hair. Although, I allowed my daughter to have blond highlites put in and nothing more. You have to be patient even though it hard to do. ↑

Name: karen | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 11:55 PM

hi jess i dont know if i can help but iwill tell you what i hade to live with right now im 21 and my parents did not let me date till i was 18 i snuck out once and boy did i get a whipping even now i have a midnight curfew god for bid i should be more then 10min. late i will get my panties lowered and spanked ↑

Name: Lockedup | Date: Aug 19th, 2006 1:37 AM

You're only 13 and even though you need space some of the things that u want to do is not necessary i'm 15 so i should kno...Do your work stop worrying about boys even though u will see intrest in them thats the reason why most of our parents are the way they are now you're focused to much on the wrong things! ↑

Name: spankyx0711 | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 12:29 AM

You just have to establish trust with your mom first. You can sit down and have a "mature" talk with her about why she doesn't trust you and what you can do to be trusted more. She'll see the initiative you take in wanting to talk to her about the situation as trustworthy and would at least want to talk about letting up some. But whatever you do, don't sneak around. That's just going to give her even more reason to not let you have any teenage freedoms. ↑