| im 15 and i just had my daughter 3 weeks ago its the hardest thing youll ever do but the happiest times of your life ↑ |
Try to relax. I'm 22, and a single mother of two babies under two. It's hard. I won't lie to you. But at the same time, it is the best thing you will ever experience. The thing is, now you gotta pull them big girl chones up, and focus on your kid. While it is okay, every once in a while, to go out to have fun, for the next 18 years, your life is going to revolve around your child. When you go out, while you are pregnant, pay attention to parents with their kids. How the kid is acting, how the parent handles their child. You need to soak all that up, so that the reality does hit that YOU ARE NOW A PARENT WITH A RESPONSIBILITY TO BE ALL YOU CAN BE FOR YOUR CHILD. You will be holding an infant in March, It will feel fragile, and you WILL be scared. It will be frustrating. Sometimes that baby is just going to cry and cry, and nothing will be wrong, all babies have an episode or two like this. And you will be beyond pissed off at the father for not taking responsibility, or not being able to, regardless of the situation. You will think about how much you hate him in that moment. Blame it on him, and keep your cool. It's hard to stay calm sometimes, but it's not the baby's fault, it's probably just scared and wants comfort or to cuddle. Sometimes, it takes them a minute to stop crying when you cuddle with the baby. It happens. WIth labor, depends on your pain tolerence, but I'd say get the epidural, because it will hurt. Unless you can focus enough to study the Mognan method, but that requires you being at peace with your life. The epidural doesn't get you high, it just numbs you. My last delivery was really fast, and I tore, but I didn't feel anything but pressure.
If I can think of anything else, which I probably will, I will add more. :D ↑ |
