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Name: Sam23

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ok, so i just recently found out i was pregnant. ive only been with my for about 6 months and we have a fairly stable and strong relationship. well anyways, he is off in minnesota visiting family for the holidays and the day i told him i was expecting i found out he cheated on me. he says it was just a kiss nothing more, but should i really believe that? and if i do should i forgive him? im so confused as to what to do. he says he loves me and wants this child, but he is only 17 and i dont want it ruining his life. anyways, before i go any further do any of you have any advice or opinions for me. they would be greatly appreciated. ↓

Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 6th, 2007 2:12 PM

ok, lets be honest. Yes, chances are, he slept with the girl, and most likely, he's gonna do it again. Not tryin to burst your bubble, I've just been in your situation. Whether you forgive him or not is your choice, but don't be surprised if you suspect him cheating again. He is 17. Also, don't be worried about the baby ruining his life. Right now is the time to be worried about yourself and that baby. If he decides in a week that having a baby isn't something he can do at his young age, then it certainly won't have much of an effect on his life, only his wallet. As soon as he turns 18, have him served with child support papers, even if the two of you are still together. It will keep you and your baby safe. Now isn't the time to be worried about how this will affect him. This may sound selfish, but I've been where you are. My bf and I were the same ages as you and yours at the time, four years ago. ↑