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Name: Kaelin

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I'm 18 and I need help on how to tell my best friend I'm pregnant. Okay here's the story...My name is Kaelin and my best friend (Rylie) and I have been friends since second grade and in 6th grade Brian joined our little group and it was all good. After christmas break of 11th grade Brian and Rylie started to date and that was cool by me but after a few months Rylie freaked out and broke up with him. *this was a few months ago* and we (me and Brian) had a fling. It shouldnt have happened but I was really lonely and he was sooo upset and somehow we just ended up together! Rylie and Brian got back together like a couple of weeks later and that was fine at the time but now I found out I'm four and a half months pregnant and I love Brian. I told Brian last month when I found out I was and I told him how I felt about him and he just flat out told me that he would help with the baby and would be their for our child completely 100% and thats soo nice to have but I really want him to be with me but he loves Rylie and he said he wants to marry her and I know Rylie feels the same way about him. :( that completely broke my heart but I have more pressing matters like how to tell Rylie. He said he wanted to break the news to her himself but that was last month and he still hasn't done it and I'm starting to show and I just want to get everything out in the open! Soo...what do i do??? ↓

Name: Aaron | Date: Jun 24th, 2006 11:11 AM

Hey hunni, just tell her shes beenyour best mate explain to her it happened whilst they were on a break..and after that theirs two ways itll go
1- she could understand ( i doubt it ) and hold her head up high..
2- she will flip out in rage and cry her heart out, well you did sleep with her love of her life ( it sounds like that anyway ) and if that happens let her be mad let her get it out, and make sure brian !! takes the blame aswell it takes two to have sex.

Good luck hunni,
( sorry it its llong winded ) ↑

Name: Sienna | Date: Jun 25th, 2006 11:39 PM

Oh...that completely sucks! I honestly think Brian is right to tell her because it's like saying he's accepting it and is trying to be a man and do the right thing and it sounds to me like Brian is a sweet guy to be there for your baby but he wants Rylie. No matter how it goes ---whether Rylie accepts it or is heart broken about it (i mean how could she not) you still have a little baby to think about and hopefully Brian will stay strong and help you thru this..your in it together! but just sit down with brian and talk about it! give him like 2 weeks to tell her or you will..plain and simple but she's going to notice eventually lol...good luck ↑

Name: David | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 10:57 AM

You should just be greatful that he is there for you so just suck it up! ↑

Name: Zylle Rosman | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 3:50 PM

Good Luck..sorry I have no advice lol ........keep us updated!!!! ↑

Name: Sienna | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 5:52 PM

David SHOVE OFF YOU _____ [------insert chosen insult here! ↑

Name: Kaelin RESPONSE | Date: Jun 27th, 2006 6:06 PM

Hey well I just wanted to let everyone in on what happened. Rylie took Brandon to dinner because apparently she had something big to tell him too..(She is moving to Tuscany (Italy) for the next year or so to see her mom) and when she told Brandon he flipped out and Rylie was confused so she came to me to talk about why he got mad and just left and then I just told her..flat out and she didn't get mad or anything...she just kinda sat there and after about 20 minutes of silence she got up and walked out with this sort of "zoned out" look on her face..(this was yesterday night around like 10) and no one has heard from her since and well........now I don't know whats going to happen and now I'm losing my best friend who I really need right about now! ↑

Name: Zylle Rosman | Date: Jun 27th, 2006 8:38 PM

I wonder if she will like blow later. When I was pregnant with my son Clark at first I was nuetral about it...i mean it takes two to tango so i just accepted it and then about two weeks later or so I just blew up! I realized that I was soo angry at myself for letting it happen but then again the circumstances are much different I suppose. I hope she's okay though...I mean thats alot to take in and I hope your going to pull thru too, don't get me wrong..it just seems like a lot! ↑

Name: Miss Tiina | Date: Jun 28th, 2006 4:10 AM

I thought his name was Brian? Man girl, how many bf's does Riley have that you slept with? ↑

Name: Kaelin | Date: Jun 28th, 2006 11:58 PM

LOL!!! No!! Brandon is my brother and he and rylie have always been close and who knows my brother better than me!! And just when she got there idk i just spilt it all out...I couldn't help it!! And we still havent seen her! where has she gotten off to ?!?! ↑

Name: Lizzi | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 5:48 PM

You and Brian should go to Rylie and tell her together and let her decide where she wants things to go with brian from there,she may no longer want anything to do with either of you,and that's probably why he hasn't told her yet but she certainly has the right to know. ↑