I dont know what to do or even what category to put this in. Im 27 from chicago but living in columbus cuz of an ex. Well 2 years ago I met this guy Michael and immediately after we got serious and got our own place. We had to leave our place and I turned up pregnant with my first. He has two other boys. Everything was incredible and I was never happier. The only problem we really had was that I was a stripper when I met him and he couldnt trust me cuz of that. He cheated on me once too when I was at work when we lived in our own place, but didnt find that out till WAY later when he told me. Anyhow Phoenix, our baby, was born and 3 months later died of sids. Everything went bad after that. We had alot of jealousy and anger and fear and sadness and well everything. Just recently, we had split up. For 3 weeks. Then we got back together and then one day he tells me that hes not in love with me anymore, when phoenix went half of him went with him and he doesnt know how to feel anymore with me and he doesnt wanna be mean to me and doesnt want me to hate him and he loves me with all his heart but his mind is set and he dont wanna be with me anymore. Anyhow Im so sad, I cant stop crying I wanna be with him more then ever and hes pushing me away and im crumbling. After losing phoenix and then him I have no family here, a crappy job, i live with a guy who used to be my number one customer at the strip club, lived here almost 4-5 years now, never have done NOTHING with him nor will I and things have changed a whole lot in that aspect too... I just dont know what to do anymore, i have no idea how to be happy. I was hoping maybe someone could give me some advice on how to stop crying and feeling hopeless? This is the worst year of my life. Anyhow the baby passed june 07 of this year... its the worst day of my life and I love and miss him so much. Also I might be pregnant with another, I told Michael that but well I dont think he thinks I am and he said if I am he still is sticking to his decision. I go to the doctor on thursday to find out for sure.
Please help me ↓
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