Name: Rebeca Title: Becoming a seragent mother

Hi i was wondering what do you thing about becoming a seregent mother. How do you know if you can do it? I have a good friend who cant have babies so i was wondering if it would be a good idea to help her out and carie her child for nine months. Do you think it would be that easy. My son is 6 months old. So i have done pregnancy and birth before. But would it be easy to realize that the child that i would be caring inside of me is not mine.  ?

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Name: atomic snowflake • Date: 08/02/2006 13:48:17

Don't do it. It will screw with your head. You don't need that going on for you.  =

Name: spankyx0711 • Date: 08/02/2006 22:18:18

I think that's a great idea of yours to try and be a surrogate mother! ! When I first found out I was pregnant, I felt guilty because I'm so young and unprepared and there are so many other people out there that are more suitable for parenthood that can't have children.
All I can say is try doing some research on the internet and see if there are any laws, or regulations surrounding it. I don't know much about it personally, but I think you can do it in private with your friend. Just run the idea past her and if she thinks it's a good idea decide on a sperm donor or a suitable male partner together and go for it! !  =

Name: Rebeca • Date: 08/04/2006 06:58:03

Does anyone know of any good sites that i could go to?  =

Name: shannon • Date: 08/05/2006 00:12:16

me and my best friend have actually been researching being seragent motherhood. i am 21 and she is 20. it has been our opinion that it would be easier knowing that the baby would go to a good home and the person really wants children. plus for me already being a mother would help  =

Name: Rebeca • Date: 08/05/2006 10:00:56

shannon- oh yes the lady that i have been talking to is a good friend. and has been wanting a child of her own. And she will most defiantly be a good mom and her husband will great also. My friend cant carried any babies. Cuz she had a bad hart. So i know that i will be doing a good thing. She just god married and truly wants to start a family. She asked my mom if she would. But my mom is a diabetic so there isa chance of her passing that on. and my mom doesnt want to do that. But im young have great helth. and by doin this would really make me happy. But i just dont know is i can pass on the baby that i had carried inside of me. Do you think that you would be able to do it?  =

Name: Erica • Date: 08/08/2006 11:13:49

I have actually been thinking about this alot here lately. The women is not really a friend of mine she is someone i met through a friend and they have spent all kinds of money and time on all the treatments and they would be wonderful parents. I think it would be easy to give up the baby because it is not at all yours. I mean i know you would be carrying it but it is her egg and his sperm so it is not yours at all. you just share blood with it for 9 months. I think my situation would be easier than yours because i will not see the couple that often after i have the baby and they live an hour and a half away. anyways i hope i have helped you and if you need someone to talk to let me know.  =

Name: Rebeca • Date: 08/09/2006 09:14:12

Thanks Erica, my friend and i live like almost 3 hours away. so we wouldn't get to see each other much either. I just really want to help her out. she has really been through a lot. She holes inside of her. A hart the once belonged to a lil girl who died. So if she cant have babies she is just grateful that she is alive. I just truly hope that once i have the baby i can go home oh with out the baby. Go in all full to the top. and come out empty handed.  =

Name: solanna • Date: 08/21/2006 10:35:22

i am looking for a seragent mother. i am going to be 30 in december and have 2 beautiful daughters but due to some health problems i had to have a partial hysterectomy 2 years ago i am now in a relationship with an amazing man and would love to have a child together. if you could help with websites or doctors or names whatever that would be awesome. i also have an email to contact me jasonsgrl_2004@yahoo.com  =

Name: Amy Abbott • Date: 09/10/2006 04:22:19

Well first of all you cant just wake up one day and think that you can handel it to reall need to do some reserch on the topic and if you have had kids before then you know all about the hormone changes that happen yes in the end it will be hard to give up somthing the you kept a live for so long but you have to tell your self that its not my baby and you are doing it for a very good cause to let someone elce feel the joy in there lives that your own kids brought to you  =

Name: momof1 • Date: 09/15/2006 19:59:53

Hello.. I'm actually on the road to becoming a first time surrogate mother. I have been thinking about surrogacy for about a year. And through much thought and prayer, I have decided that this is something I would like to do.
I have been talking with a wonderful couple for a couple of weeks now, and we are talking about meeting in the next few weeks.
I'm a single mother with a beautiful 2 year old son (he will be 3 in OCT), and I can't express in words the love and joy that he given me. And it would be an honor for me to help another family experince the same joy.
By no means is this going to be easy. Especially after the birth of the baby. That's why I believe it's so IMPORTANT to have the support of family and friends, and also to go a trained counselor during the pregnancy. I know it's going to be bitter sweet.
My only advice for someone that is thinking about doing this is to do alot of research, and to know the family you will be working with. And have an attorney or agency that is familiar with surrogacy. (Because each state has different laws about surrogacy...FYI..surrogacy is illegal in Washington DC).
Another good website to visit is www.surromomsonline.com.
If anyone has any questions or would like to talk about this further, please feel free to email me...ERcarebear79@yahoo.com  =

Name: Surrogate • Date: 09/15/2006 21:07:14

How does that all work?? Do you actually have to have sex with the husband?? or do they use intra uterine insemination?  =

Name: momof1 • Date: 09/15/2006 21:54:02

There are 2 types of surrogate moms. GS (gestational surrogate),,,this is were they IP (intended parents) already have their own embryo's. You go to a clinic and the inseminate the embryos in the surrogate mothers womb.
The second type of surrogate mother is a TS (traditonal surrogate). There is were they use the surrogate mothers egg, and the IP (the fathers) sperm. This is usually done in a doctor's office. Though I have heard of some people trying to do this at home via the old turkey baster method (HEHE).
Never should a surrogate mother get pregnant via the means of any sexual contact. In my opinion this is HIGHLY unethical.  =

Name: Surrogate • Date: 09/16/2006 08:05:15

momof1~ so like your becoming a surrogate for someone?? How much are they paying you if you don't mind me asking??  =

Name: yvette • Date: 09/17/2006 08:32:02

i was thinking about the same thing, my cousin had a baby boy, died of cancer, had 5 pregnancies, all misscarried, i just had a baby3 months ago and want to carry their baby 4 them. i think it would be a greatest gift that anyone could ever give them, i just dont know how to go about it. help!!!!!!!!!!!!!  =

Name: gina • Date: 09/18/2006 18:48:20

well i have alway wanted a child of my own and now that i am a mother i know how wonderfull it is to have a child and giving that to some one else would make me fell as if there is apart of me with that family all the time. and know that they would give that child all the love and comfort a mother will give there own child which they have given birth to.  =

Name: Dee - interview • Date: 09/21/2006 14:52:08

Hi,
I am looking to interview a pregnant surrogate mother for a Early Childhood Education paper due by Oct 3rd. Any names or locations would be changed for confidental reasons. My e-mai is dancedance418@Yahoo.com - thank you for your time  =

Name: momof1 • Date: 09/21/2006 15:44:31

Dee...may I suggest you go to the website www.surromomsonline.com. I think you would have a better chance of finding someone that may be able to help you. I'm looking to be a first time surrogate, and I'm talking with a wonderful family right now, but I'm not pregnant.  =

Name: Danielle • Date: 09/23/2006 00:55:32

Actually i think that it is a great idea yea it may be difficult for you to realize that it isnt your child but just think, you are helping out a good friend of yours....i know for a fact that my best friend is going to do the same thing for me once i am ready to have another baby she has already done it once for me. i mean i love her to death and thank her everyday for the son that i already have thanks to her. in my opinion its just going to be a stronger bond between good friends. my friend has became like a sister to me. i help her raise her daughter and she helps me raise my son. we are just like a little family. i know that one day we arent going to be able to do the things that we do now with them but we are taking advantage of it now. if i could do it i would.
Best of Wishes
Danielle  =

Name: Murr • Date: 02/18/2007 18:36:37

I have been wondering for a while and have been trying to look it up but I cant find anything anywhere about how much a seragent mother cost. so if anyone has an idea I would really appreicate it!
-Murr  =

Name: mel211985 • Date: 02/18/2007 21:59:19

hiya im actually considering doing it after ive had my children but only after i have completed my family. Once ive made the concious decision that i do not want more kids it will be alot easier. I think its a wonderful thing to do i have family members that have been anable to have kids and ive see the hurt it can cause. I phoned up a surrogacy agency and spoke to a surrogate mother where are you from? im in the uk ive still got there number.  =

Name: SoConfused • Date: 03/01/2007 12:10:03

I'm going through something similar to what you are going through. My friend can't have any more kids and she really wants to have a baby with her new husband! they're a really great couple and all and I would do anything for them. The other day she asked me to carry their baby for them because she doesn't have a uterus anymore she just has ovaries. I just dont know what to do because I want a baby of my own so badly Im scared I'll get attached to hers! does this make sense? I hope someone could help me decide! Thank You Soo Much  =

Name: mel211985 • Date: 03/01/2007 17:36:56

my advice to you is not to do it. When i talked to other surrogate mothers from the surrogacy agency they advised me that i would find it really difficault if i had not completed my own family although if you are friends and i mean really close friends you could be part of the childs life anyway but if you already feel that you would become to attached personally i wouldnt do it.  =

Name: mel211985 • Date: 03/01/2007 17:38:19

your mate will understand if she is a true friend explain your feelings.  =

Name: Sara • Date: 06/18/2007 00:09:28

Hi i am looking into being a seragent mother  =

Name: jen • Date: 06/18/2007 17:33:34

How much would you have topay a serogant mother?  =

Name: Heather • Date: 06/24/2007 21:06:45

I am 28 years old I have 4 beautiful girls. I have my tubes tied but we can always do intro vetro. I would love to help anyone that needs me to carry a baby for them. We can even use my eggs if you need to.  =

Name: Andria • Date: 06/25/2007 00:07:54

Hello my name is Andria as I said I am about to turn 22 in July. I am healthy and young and fit. I would love to give the chance for someone to have children that can't any more or has not been able to. I hope that I can be of some help.  =

Name: teebabe21 • Date: 06/29/2007 11:25:53

Hi... I am from Louisiana and my husband and I want to have a baby of our own but we dont think I can have one on my own..Any advice  =

Name: Teebabe_21 • Date: 06/29/2007 11:34:45

Andria,
Hi I would like to talk more to you. I would love it if you would beable to help us out with this.I know it is alot to ask of someone to carry your child. But we really want to start our own family. My husband is 21 and I am turning 21 in November. We have been together for 6 years and still counting. To find out more about us please email me at tanyaoneal_21@yahoo.com Thanks for everything and hope to hear from you soon.  =

Name: Beautifull • Date: 07/11/2007 22:19:31

Hi is there anone here that will have a child for me?  =

Name: LoveCristin • Date: 07/13/2007 02:06:11

being a surrogate is one of the best things a woman could do and to be able to do it for your best friend!!!...OMG!!! It would feel so great giving her that gift and then being able to see that baby grow and be loved.....I would do it for her!!! Good Luck and God Bless!!!!!  =

Name: LoveCristin • Date: 07/13/2007 02:10:46

I have never given birth to a child of my own but if anyone needs a surrogate i would be willing to consider it as long as you are good people, loving, stable, and are in need of some help to bring your child into this world. I hope you all find an amazing woman that will take good care of your baby for time they need to be in her womb and then lovingly pass them on to their parents!  =

Name: rob • Date: 07/29/2007 12:32:52

hello how r u  =

Name: guamgirl • Date: 07/30/2007 14:43:30

hello  =

Name: guamgirl • Date: 07/30/2007 14:46:32

one of my friends ask me to become a seregent mother for them and i never did that befor does anyone have some info to tell me ?  =

Name: jamie • Date: 08/11/2007 23:24:12

I am thinking about being a surrogate and we have began talking about the exchange of money. Is there a common procedure for the exchange of money? All upfront? Half and half? All at the end?  =

Name: Jeanine • Date: 08/16/2007 00:40:29

where can you find a surrogate mother?  =

Name: Meagan • Date: 08/18/2007 13:44:13

I am pregnant right now (unexpectedl!), and have absolutely no means of caring for this precious unborn chld. Everyday I suffer constant anxiety wonderng what to do, I have no family, no one to help me. Then a friend told me about becoming a surrogate mother, please help me to save this chld rather than murdering it thru abortion. The father wants nothing to do with me or this baby. I am not looking for tons of money, I just want to save this baby's life and hopefully bring joy to another family that I know this baby will be safe, loved, and happy with. PLEASE HELP!!!! email me at msweeney8@comcast .com or write me back on here and I'll check every day for a response to my desperate plea. I am a 26 year old female and would be happy to answer any questions u may have.  =

Name: Faithful • Date: 09/04/2007 18:27:36

I would love to give life to a family who has not had to oportunity to experience a child of thier own:} I have four wonderful kids of my own ages 22, 20, 18 & 15 two boys two girls and have no desire to have more for myself although I would love to give that chance of unconditional love of your own child to a loving wanting needing couple:} I just last week turned 38 myself and have been thinking about this for three years its always been a part of me to give back:} Iam in exellent health 126lb 5'7" and always have been:} if their are any interested couples feel free to contact me snglbt@clearwire.net  =

Name: elena • Date: 09/05/2007 11:10:40

I would like to know how much money seregent mothers get.  =

Name: carrie • Date: 09/11/2007 07:58:26

Yes i have had 2 girls and am pregnant with my 3rd. children are a wonderful gift for anyone if you choose to be a surrogate mother or adoption. I have been doing some research and i am going to help people with their problems on having children and becoming a surrogate mother myself so i would think its a wonderful idea despite what people say about the it screwing with your head and i presonnal dont believe that.  =

Name: nicole • Date: 09/19/2007 00:55:56

what is a surrogate mother?  =

Name: friendly in pa • Date: 09/20/2007 18:59:20

honestly if you only have one child my own opinion is that you have to be done having children of your own. I am doing this for a great couple that I met threw an attorney's office. I am almost ther to do the transfer and being that I will have no blood relation to this baby that also makes it easier because it is not mine or my husband's I could not do it if the egg was mine. If you want to ask me any questions or hear how things go I would be glad to tell you.I myself am very happy about it. To give the gift that the good lord has giving to me to another couple is wonderful.  =

Name: stephanie • Date: 09/21/2007 10:11:56

it would really just be how yoru mind set is. I'm a mother of 3 and just remarried and cannot give my wonderful husband who is fighting a war at the moment a child now. I always wanted to be a seragent mother, but that got thrown out the window, just think of it like this.. Your friend would be so thankful knowing that you could do something so wonderful for her, you would be blessing her with something that she cannot do herself. A baby is such a wonderful gift as you already know. It probably won't be easy knowing that you have carried this child for 9 months and then just to hand it off, but also you have to look at it like this you will always be in that child's life, and you will be known for something so special!!!! IT's amazing!! It would be an amazing feeling to know that you did that for them! I comend you for even just thinking about doing it!!! God Bless you!!! I hope you find your answer! If you would like to chat i have yahoo..its thegoldy5@yahoo.com you can e-mail me at any time  =

Name: rosita • Date: 09/26/2007 16:43:35

hi my name is rosita and i would love to be a seragent mom. i live in new york. and i'am attending college right now. i'am majoring in nursing. if any one is interested please feel free to email me robandroe@aol.com  =

Name: Sally • Date: 10/05/2007 21:10:33

yes i am going to do it.. i am putting the papers in 2morrow.. i feel good about it. i think its a wonderful thing...  =

Name: louise • Date: 10/06/2007 11:27:39

il like to be a seragent mum as i have my own child but would like to help and could do with the extra cash
if you would like to ask me any questions email me on silvergreecedog@yahoo.co.uk  =

Name: TAKAYA • Date: 10/10/2007 21:51:17

HI THERE EVERYONE I AM LOOKING TO BECOME A SERGANT MOM FOR A FAMILY THAT REALLY WANT TO HAVE KIDS BUT CANT DO IT BY THEM SELF I AM JUST NOT SURE HOW TO GO ABOUT IT  =

Name: TAKAYA • Date: 10/10/2007 21:52:28

HI THERE EVERYONE I AM LOOKING TO BECOME A SERGANT MOM FOR A FAMILY THAT REALLY WANT TO HAVE KIDS BUT CANT DO IT BY THEM SELF I AM JUST NOT SURE HOW TO GO ABOUT IT EMAIL ME IF YOU WANT TO TALK MORE ORANGEDIME01@YAHOO.COM  =

Name: Monica • Date: 10/17/2007 12:00:58

i think it is a good idea heling out a friend, but! it will hurt you if you see your friend walking around and you know it is sapose to be your child, i am 18 years old i no i am young, but m sisters friend (27) could not have children and nither could any of her friends so i said i would get pregnant for her i did so and she is happy she can lookafter a child, but she is also uphappy knowing its not realy hr child ans i am upset sometimes because my sisters friend is bringing up my child and i want children so much i have tryed for more but can not have them (as my boyfriend of 7 years has been diagosed with cancer and is unable to have babies) x  =

Name: SALLY • Date: 11/09/2007 14:09:05

YES I THINK ITS A WONDERFUL THING. I AM TRYING TO DO IT RIGHT NOW.. I HOPE THINGS GO GOOD.. YOU NEED TO MAKE SURE ITS SOMETHING YOU CAN DO FIRST.. GOOD LUCK!!  =

Name: Laura • Date: 11/16/2007 19:08:33

I would like to be a seragent mother. I am 29 and done having my wonderful children. I have 4 children. I am in school and was thinking about helping someone. lschallert@charter.net  =

Name: kristy • Date: 11/22/2007 20:07:47

Hi, I was wondering is it possible for a woman to who has her tubes tied and then later decides she wants to have another baby, to go through surrogacy?  =

Name: Stacy • Date: 11/24/2007 05:34:30

Very interested, for many reasons. My one feel and love for doing this is to offer others what they cannot and/or they have no choice over the matter. I am a loving mother of two. I will not ever lie about... other pregancies I may have encountered. I do not want to come off hipocritical in any way. I would just love to hear back from someone... anyone, to give me an idea of what I am considering. My name is Stacy, but I am referred to as Stacy Mae. Looking forward to hearing a response.  =

Name: rosemary • Date: 11/27/2007 21:10:32

i am 18 years old and my sister can't have kids and she ask me to carry her child for her. but i don't know if i would be able to deal with the emotions that come with it. and what if i didn't want to give the baby up towards the end of the pregnancy?i don't know what to do i need answers some one help me  =

Name: bradley george • Date: 11/30/2007 08:52:25

hi  =

Name: tyij • Date: 11/30/2007 08:52:35

hi  =

Name: tyij • Date: 11/30/2007 08:53:01

i have a big boob  =

Name: Jane • Date: 12/05/2007 20:41:14

Hello, I am From Austin tx. I am 22yrs old and am considering being a surrogate mother. I am 110% healthy and don't smoke. If you feel like contacting me my e-mail is janenbenjamin@yahoo.com thanks  =

Name: tambia • Date: 12/18/2007 00:44:58

i am a mother already and in a position to where this child i am bearing is not a good one...i am due ant day now w/ a little girl to whom i believe can,will,deserve than what i have to offer..this is so hard for me to say,think,and believe but it is the truth...she is due jan.12 2008 but doctor told me more than likely before 2008....this is not an unhealthy child..she is not the problem it is the abusive thing i'm in..everything is well w/this baby...doc OK...just on a loving family that i know will take better care of her than i can do at this point and time...so on that note i will let $$$ her go knowing that she will have a family that is goin to put her first.....a healthy baby that needs to be loved...i hate even puttin this up ,but my concern is her...not to the top bidder,but the right family...............................  =

Name: Cassie • Date: 12/19/2007 10:42:58

yes, you would know in some sence that the child is not yours. However, if you carry a child for nine months you would have an emotinal attachment and may have a hard time giving the child up in the end. If you feel you can handle something like that then I feel that its a wonderful idea to carry a baby for your friend.  =

Name: Tryin • Date: 12/26/2007 20:45:21

hi, my sister is going to be a seragent for me, but we are not going to a doc we are doing this on our own. We can't afford the IVF are whatever they would have to do to her... she is 18 and I am 34, we are going to use a turkey baster... when we detect her LH serge the DH will use a condom and then we will put it in the turkey baster and my sister with put it in...
she already has a 14 month old.. so she wanted to do this for me.. cause we have been trying for 6 years..
I am in premenapause... and have major health problems.. I am thankful she wants to do this, but I am also worryed about how she is going to feel after its born and she can't have it... I don't want to put her through and emotinal stress...  =

Name: Experienced • Date: 12/27/2007 05:20:55

If you have the slightest doubt, do not pursue it. It is not fair to the people you'd be helping out.  =

Name: Trying • Date: 12/27/2007 23:24:29

I don't have any doubts.. I just said I was worried about her... this is up to her if she didn't think she could handle it then she wouldn't have vol for it... thank you...  =

Name: new_dad71 • Date: 12/28/2007 00:30:51

My reply was to the original post - not yours. Regards.  =

Name: Chorasforensics • Date: 12/28/2007 15:30:36

You will be attached to the baby for you are it's mother but it is easy for your body to understand that it is not yours. I realy think it is a good idea because u r an angel to your friend
chorasforensics@yahoo.com for more advice  =

Name: Samantha • Date: 12/29/2007 03:13:07

In respnce to Tambia....If u are serious i would love to help you out..You have no idea the miracle you would be bringing to my life. I was 19 and pregnant, very excited to start a family and a tumor attatched itself to the baby. I lost the baby, and the tumor continued to grow inside of me. I faught cancer for my own life for two years after losing my baby. I was dieing because i wasnt willing to let them take out my uterous, after all that was my god given ability to bare my own child. Wll i got soo sick i had pnemonia and went into some sort of shock. It was a tramatic situation. I just remember waking up and feeling this emptiness inside me. I knew before anyone even told me and before i even looked down for the scare what had happend, i just knew. Well its been a long road but i have finally come to terms with things and i have chosen to make a wonderful life for myself and my fiance'. Im a college student majoring in criminal law (i want to be a probation officer) and my fiance' is just a truck driver for a moving company. But we are capable of caring for a child at this point in our lives. Honestly every time i hear on the news or read in the paper about a young mother leaving her newborn baby to die in trash bins or wherever, it so kills me inside. I think if they only knew how desperatly i want a baby, if they only knew i would take care of their child. I saw your message and i want to talk with you. Please e-mail me at chilleygirl777@yahoo.com....
If anyone else reads this message and feels they connect with me, or feel they can help me please contact me.
Thank you all for listening,desperate and sincere,
Samantha  =

Name: tresa rose • Date: 12/30/2007 15:17:42

im 28 yrs old and i have been married for 9 yrs and i have 3 kids of my own and i whould love to help other people to have kids of there own  =

Name: samantha • Date: 01/04/2008 20:03:14

i would love for you to help me and my fiance'  =

Name: samantha • Date: 01/04/2008 20:09:23

this mssg is for Tambia,
please consider getting in touch with my via email..i am very interested in helping you for you would be helping me also...my name is samantha and my email is chilleygirl777@yahoo.com..i have been in an abusive relationship as well in my life..if nothing else i would like to talk you through that situation..im 32 and i can be your friend..email me
thanks samantha  =

Name: may • Date: 01/12/2008 00:42:17

can a woman who has had her tubes tied, clipped and burned be a surrogate.  =

Name: Raina • Date: 01/14/2008 19:07:34

I'd like to become a Surragent mother... Where do I begin?  =

Name: Brian Cannon • Date: 01/19/2008 20:55:44

please help me, my wife Tonya and I are looking for a surrogate mother. We want to have a baby and we cant. I would be willing to do anything to be a daddy and she would do anything to be a mother. Please help us. Having a baby is the only thing that matters to me. We have so much experience with children but its not the same. This means so much to us. You can contact us by email at www.tx_bullrider28@yahoo.com, thank you so much  =

Name: terri • Date: 01/27/2008 01:00:28

i think that if you are absolutly sure that you will not want to keep the baby because you feel conected to it you would be abel to do it and it would be a great gift you can give her.but you woudl have to know that you will not want to keep the baby yourself  =

Name: Savannah • Date: 01/30/2008 18:16:43

I've been trying to be a mother for about 6 yrs. now and my sister want to be a seragent mother for me and I just don,t know where do i get the info about it .What do u have to do?Whats the cost? etc.  =

Name: chuck • Date: 01/30/2008 22:21:48

Can a poor person find a surrogate mother  =

Name: Sara • Date: 01/31/2008 21:04:44

i am thinking strongly about becoming a surrogent mother. can i find information on this?  =

Name: kay_19 • Date: 01/31/2008 23:38:37

hi i have a older sister thats 25 shes been married for about 8 yrs and she recently found out she couldnt have kids..I was think of being her seagent mother but im only 19 and i dont have no kids yet..She has ask me but i really dont know what say and i really want to help her ..Can someone please give some advice..  =

Name: JENN • Date: 02/09/2008 13:21:09

I HAVE SOME QUESTIONS AND NEED SOME ANSWERS  =

Name: mariah • Date: 02/12/2008 15:54:15

i am only 16 years old, and becoming a seregent mother is apart of my future. i want to become one because just think of the women out in the world who can't have children. They are missing out on having a child of their own. If it makes you feel better or makes you feel like your someones hero, i say go ahead and do it. Becoming a seregent mother is one of the many amazing things that you can do in this world.  =

Name: mmomof2 • Date: 02/19/2008 11:12:47

i am in the process of becoming a first time surrogant mother. i have two healthy wonderful kids of my own. my friend asked me two years ago but she had to try several times to get her money back, on her last try she became pregnant but 2months later she miscarried, i just watched her fall apart. i am not gathering support of my husband & family & hopefully we will start the process in a few months. i keep saying why not give her the miracle that god gave me!!!!!!! i live by that saying "pay it forward"  =

Name: Mav • Date: 02/28/2008 04:50:35

Hi to all. well i've read through all of your reply and im honestly so happy that im not the only person who can't have kids, I just god married to a wonderfull man, who knows i can't have kids, but of course we would like to start a family soon. I would like for someone who is willing to become a mother for us to contact me, but of course i would like for that person to give me their email address so i can send all my info. one thing that i must let you know is that we are Muslims so if anyone has a problem with that than its okay. but i would love for someone to call me mom, its dream that for some is so simple but for someone like me sometimes it stays a dream. love to all  =

Name: jennifer marrero • Date: 02/29/2008 14:49:34

I would like to be a seragant mother. I already have two kids one boy and one girl. So i know how it feels to have children and I would like to give that wonderful feeling to some one else the joy of having a baby.  =

Name: unknown • Date: 03/08/2008 01:27:20

i think if you want to help your friend out by carrying her baby for her, since she cant have any kids herself. that it would be very nice if you would do that part for her.
and since you already have a son who is 6-months old. i dont think it would be that hard to carry her baby for 9-months. just remember that you are doing it for your friend, and not you.
but if you do carry her child for her? i still think that would be a very good thing you can do to help out your friend. :)
i mean i would do it myself if i could.  =

Name: MARI • Date: 03/11/2008 19:19:33

HI MY NAME IS MARI, IAM A 26 YR HISPANIC FEMALE WITH A 3YR OLD DAUGHTER. IAM INTERESTED IN BECOMING A SERAGENT MOTHER. IAM IN GOOD HEALTH,COULD LOOSE A LITTLE WEIGHT(WILLING TO) BUT OTHER THAN THAT IAM HEALTHY. IF YOU ARE INTERESTED PLEASE CALL ME CELL 323-635-6036 LIVE IN LA COUNTY IN CALIFORNIA. THANK YOU  =

Name: og217 • Date: 03/12/2008 16:35:53

Well, for one thing, people try to look for basic intellect when chosing a "seregate" to "carie" their child. I'd spare your poor tiny brain the effort of getting into any situation more complicated than Chucky Cheese.  =

Name: lornajiang76 • Date: 03/13/2008 05:38:02

If you want to be helped ,I think i can do you a favor, in "soloparentdate.com" .the people in there are very kind ,they will do you a favor as possible as they can  =

Name: Mary • Date: 03/15/2008 17:08:55

Hey everyone! I too am doing a lot of research on becomming a Surrogate Mother. I have found some great websites that include the process, costs, and what is required, just by googleing Surrogate mothers. I am not sure which company to choose so I have found that some of the sites have groups of women how have been surrogates that talk to each other. I am hoping to talk to some of these women to get more information. Keep praying!  =

Name: Elizabeth • Date: 03/19/2008 12:47:50

I am a mother of two little girls and I would love to give a couple a chance to grace in the happiness with having a child of there own. Please contact me at ADRAGONSWILLOW@YAHOO.COM  =

Name: Elizabeth • Date: 03/19/2008 12:56:09

meagan did you ever find help with your situation? Please contact me at ADRAGONSWILLOW@YAHOO.COM If you would like to talk.  =

Name: huntrzz • Date: 03/26/2008 23:15:35

I already gave two children up for adoption. I love the fact of helping others acheive their dreams of parenthood. However, I know realize that I have dreams of my own...mine is to own a home...that's my price to carry your child.  =

Name: Brandi • Date: 03/31/2008 19:15:42

I am interested in becoming a seragent mother. I'm not really sure where to begin but this looked like a nice place to start. If anyone has any good web sites they would be much appreciated. A little about myself. I am 25 and happily married going on 8 years. We have two happy healthy lil men ages 7 & 4. I have no health problems nor does any of my kids nor my hubby. We are a military family and I am wanting to help a couple start there life with a child of there own. To me life just is not life with out a child. (my appion)

Thanx!

B.Cary  =

Name: Alyssa • Date: 04/01/2008 02:32:27

My fiancee and I are also looking into surrogant mothers, we already have to wonderful kids, but I had them in my previous marriage and him and I would love nothing more than to have a baby together and add to our already great family, so if you know of any information please let me know..or send it to my address at alyssahodges@hotmail.com, thank you so very much and it would mean the world to us!  =

Name: Max • Date: 04/01/2008 20:11:51

I want to become a seragent mother but I dont know how to go about doing so. I work fulltime at hooters for hair could I work and be a seragent mother at the same time?  =

Name: max • Date: 04/01/2008 20:21:06

SORRY EMAIL ME AT rachel.finkes@yahoo.com thanx  =

Name: tommy • Date: 04/02/2008 13:49:19

Im looking for a lady that wants a baby .Im 47 years old and no kids ive raised 4 kids but none of my own.ive tryed to find a loving lady but every lady that i get with say thay want kids but after we get married thay dont want to or get a abortion.please reply to me.mr desprite. my im is thomasseymore@belsouth.net  =

Name: tommy • Date: 04/02/2008 14:08:36

Its not that i want a baby im looking for a lady that wants kids but dont have a man to do his part.It dosent matter if its in a lab or the old fastion way im tired of being everbodys father and then thay walk a way.i want flish and blood.ladys help  =

Name: B • Date: 04/05/2008 21:34:41

Do u have to already have children in order to be a seregent mother?  =

Name: cami • Date: 04/11/2008 13:19:46

I am about to begin IVF and I am willing to donate or share a cycle with someone. I live in Florida, and willing to work with a husband and wife who want a child. You can contact me @ cami0882@yahoo.com  =

Name: Nia • Date: 04/11/2008 15:59:25

I just have some general questions  =

Name: patricia kennedy • Date: 04/13/2008 21:02:45

Im 33 years old, and me and my husband are looking for a way to have another baby. A year ago, we had lost our daughter, and trying to find a safe way for us to have a baby, without putting me in danger. I have lupus, and its hard for me to carry to full term. If anyone can help please feel free to call (904)214-3015, if anyone can help us.  =

Name: sheri • Date: 04/15/2008 15:26:16

how do you get started and how much do you get paid if you dont mind me asking. i would like to know a lot of info about this  =

Name: sheri • Date: 04/15/2008 15:29:19

i forgot to give my e-mail www.shfrilynn@aol.com  =

Name: atari • Date: 04/17/2008 15:27:32

i am 25 years and i have 3 kids of my own but i am interested in helping other couple have kids it really hurts me to my heart that the people who want babies and can take care of them can not have kids and the ones who dont take care of them and abuse them are the ones who are allowed to keep their children it just really discusses me everyone deserves a chance to have a family but when you dont do right they should be taken away to many people want kids for people to have them and mistreat them so if there is anyone who wants a surrogant mother i will be happy to see what we can discuss feel free to contact me by email at atarsmit1@aol.com  =

Name: atari • Date: 04/17/2008 15:29:12

i would love to be able to help someone by having their child  =

Name: Theresa • Date: 04/17/2008 23:02:22

I am looking for someone cray like i am  =

Name: solo • Date: 04/18/2008 03:59:07

well...I have read this kind of article on a wonderful single parent dating site called singleparentloving.com *******where you can talk what you want and love that you love !  =

Name: tasha • Date: 04/18/2008 23:20:52

well i cant have kids either and i would love to find a surrogate mother,but i wouldn't ask her to go through with it if i knew she wasn't strong enough to handle the pain of carring a baby for nine months and then giving it away  =

Name: Alyssa • Date: 04/19/2008 00:57:53

I'm 18. And I want to be a surrogate mother. How would I go abouts doing so?  =

Name: april • Date: 04/23/2008 10:42:17

I would be a seragent for someone. I have been blessed with six children. But i would do invetro. I have had good pregnancys.
Great births. I think there are a lot of people who would be wonderful parents and just can't get pregnant. I have thought long about it and would love to give someone the chance to be a parent.  =

Name: Genevaandjason4@yahoo.com • Date: 04/23/2008 17:56:07

how do i become some-one womb????  =

Name: genevaandjason@yahoo.com • Date: 04/23/2008 17:58:51

i'm already a mommy of 2 kids healthy hapyy and i would loveto share my happiness with some -one who wants kids as well  =

Name: tina • Date: 04/29/2008 15:50:04

hello i am 18 and have three wonderful kids i would love to let other people have a chance. And give gods gift to them i have had all easy labors i have pushed all my kids out in about 14 mintues. i would love to help someone out please let me no i will love to do it  =

Name: solo • Date: 04/29/2008 23:30:51

Hey ....Wanna meet more single parent in your area ? Just go http://www.singleparentloving.com  =

Name: kathleen martin • Date: 05/01/2008 23:37:11

my phone number is 909 685-7152. i would like to talk to you about being a seragent mother.  =

Name: april • Date: 05/05/2008 13:03:54

i have had sex before with my fiance aaron i think im pregnant but i dont know if i am but earlier on in my life the doctors told me i couldnt get pregnant but i have all the symptoms somebody please help me  =

Name: SUNNY • Date: 05/09/2008 14:28:30

HI IM A SPANISH 30YR OLD WILLING TO BE A SURROGATE IN GOOD HEALTH MARRIED 2 CHILDREN AND WONDERFUL HUSBAND. IM A NURSE AND VERY HAPPY FUN, AND CARRING PERSON  =