Hi i am currenlty living with my other half,but he is abuisvie to me and i want out.The thing is i am scared he has said that i could not live without his money.We have a 2 year old together and i stay at home with him while he goes out to work.
I know that the only way i would get rid of him is to change the locks and out his stuff outside the front door as i have tryed to throw him out before and he has not left.
I live in a council flat with my little boy in the uk.
Does anyone know what i would get to live off? I know that i would get housing benfit and concil tax benfit but that is all i know,i would go back to work when my child starts preschool.
i AM REALLY SCARED BUT I CANT LIVE WITH THIS MAN ANYONE MORE I JUST FEEL LIKE CRYING ALL THE TIME I AM NOT HAPPY AT ALL! ↓
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| Name: Jo | Date: Jun 25th, 2006 7:38 PM |
| PLEASE,PLEASE,PLEASE,PLEASE? ↑ |
| Name: jo | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 8:01 AM |
| Name: Lynne n | Date: Jun 27th, 2006 7:46 PM |
The only thing that you can do is to get in contact with the benfits people and ask them.
As for the rent on the flat dont worry too much just phone up your landlord and tell them that you will be claiming housing benefit and what you end up owing will be back paid anyway! ↑ |
| Name: john | Date: Jul 4th, 2006 1:50 PM |
| Name: kaycuttie | Date: Jul 4th, 2006 3:04 PM |
| hi babe i am on msn if u wwant a chat [email protected] i am in the uk and am a single mum an can tell u all the benefits i get if that helps plus my ex husband was abusive soif u need a chat .... ↑ |
| Name: Jo | Date: Jul 4th, 2006 3:58 PM |
| Hi he is gone i finley got rid of him i am just waiting on my benfits to come through i am borrowing some money from my mum for now1 ↑ |
| Name: Unknown | Date: Jul 7th, 2006 11:56 AM |
| I really feel for u! I got brought up wiv abusive ppl and it aint nice, wheres ur family if u dont mind me askin? u realy do need to get out now, u dont want ur child to be growin up wiv an abusive dad cause he wont thank u for it in the end. I know its hard but u can do it by urself, it wil only make u stronger and in the long run u wil be happy agen wiv someone that u deserve, if ur sons 2yrs old then he wil be goin pre school soon i expect? then u can get a job and earn money at the same time, it wil work out for u in the end aslong as u put yourself and ur son first. ↑ |
| Name: patricia | Date: Jul 7th, 2006 6:28 PM |
| Hey jo, i know exactly how u feel, i went out with a man for over 3 yrs, we were engaged 2. He made me believe i was worthless and couldn't live without his money. i currently live in the uk and there is lots of help out there for u, go to the housing ppl where i am from its called the housing executive and tell them ur situation they will provide u and ur 2yr old with temporary accomodation until they can find u a more permanent place to live. Being a single mother looking after ur child u will be entitled to income support every week and child maintenance, i am not too sure wat elese but as u said housing benefit and council tax credit come into it too. This man is in no doubt a very insecure person who has some problems that he needs to deal with, and u HAVE to leave him to let him straighten himself out for himself and ur child, if that is possible. Please don't let this man keep hurting u in this way bcos no matter how much he says he's gonna change he won't, it will get far worse - my fiance at the time almost strangled me to death before i realised enough was enough. I know u can do it just think of the better life u will have with ur 2 yr old Good luck xx ↑ |
| Name: Nina | Date: Jul 22nd, 2006 1:47 AM |
| If you want out then get out before its too late. Do some research on finding some womens shelters or somewhere to go for pregnant women. Theres help out there whatever you do dont stay somewhere ur not happy.Be strong!!! ↑ |
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