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Name: Nish

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Ive been with my boyfriend/baby's father for 3 years..since I was 16 and he was 20. I got pregnant when I was 18 and just had our child. Throughout the whoel pregnancy we fought and I just couldnt stop crying. Everytime I felt down or we argues I would jsut cry. He gets mad at me everyttime and is always telling me that we may be in a bad situation ut I have no reason to cry. I can't help it. I thought things would get better after I had my baby but it hasnt. We still fight and now im even more frustrated because he dosent live with us. So he's not here with us all the time. Plus now I gotta figure out how im going to do school, daycare and work. I hav eno clue. So many thigns are stressing me out and when I try adn talk to him about them he just blows it off and starts talking about how he has bigger problems because he has to provide for our family and all this. I know he's under stress too but I just wish he wouldnt be so ahrd on me all the time. I've been sying everyday since I had her. I just start thinking about how thigns were in the beginning and how in love we were and now we fight everytime we see each other. It so painful. ↓

Name: michelle | Date: May 7th, 2006 11:28 PM

things will get better ↑

Name: Hi Nish | Date: May 8th, 2006 2:38 AM

It's hard but things will get easier everything takes time, Im 30 weeks pregnant and me and my fiancee broke up when I was 18 weeks, they don't understand that when your pregnant you get very emotional. I no I did and thats why we broke up, but just keep thinking life can only get better, everyone has their down days but you just have to get back up again, your strong and everything will be ok, there is someone out there that will really love you and your daughter so forget about your ex he doesn't deserve you. ↑

Name: To Nish | Date: May 12th, 2006 6:08 PM

Young love,what did you expect?Did you really think it would last and be a bed of roses?Kids will never learn will they?They think they have it all figured out when they don't.If you have learned anything,please pass on to others that having children and sex at a young age isn't worth it and why.Maybe you can keep someone else from making the mistakes you have. ↑

Name: me | Date: May 20th, 2006 5:00 AM

If your man truly loves you things will work out.He's probably stressed because he didn't expect things to be quite so hard. Maybe he just needs a little time to adjust. Don't worry too much,he'll probably come around soon with an apology!! ↑

Name: brian | Date: May 27th, 2006 2:58 AM

mommy dosent understand ↑

Name: Another young mom | Date: May 29th, 2006 2:10 PM

Actually, "To Nish" I had my kids at 16 and 17 years old. My HUSBAND and I have been together since I was 15 and now I am 29 years old. It doesn't always end up like that. ↑

Name: sare | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 9:16 PM

it is very hard but u sound strong ↑