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My unborn son will most likely never know his biological father (fathers choice not mine or my sons) & because of this I am concerned that when I do have him he will bond with my partner then I'll have to explain to him 1 day that his "Daddy" isn't his dad at all. I've already thought about how to word it when I do tell him but it doesn't stop me from worrying about if he's going to hold it against me for not telling him from the start. I've thought the conversation would go a little something like this "You're daddy is your daddy & he loves you very much, nothing can or will change that but you need to know there's another man that helped mummy make you. You have every rite to know who that man is & I'll do what I can to help you". I'm just so scared the response I get back will be something like "I hate you mum, you lied to me. Why didn't you tell me about my father?" ↓
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