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this is a long story but please read as i need ur advice.in july 2005 i had my daughter, i was dumped by her father when he found out i was pregnant and he mentally abused me for the first few months of pregnancy, i tried to get him to change his mind about us and to c if he would try to be a father and he was having none of it. i went on an had the baby, alone and now she is a year 1/2.Her father has been to see her alot recently and we became very close again, he seems to have turned over a new leaf and stupidly i thought we may get back together. One evening we got very close and we slept together, i took the morning after pill straight away but i was sick 8 hours after taking it as i had picked up a stomach bug, i called the doctor and he said the pill will still work as it was 8 hrs later so the pill would of worked already. I FOUND OUT IM PREGNANT THIS MORNING. i dont know what to do. her father has just come round to the idea of having my daughter(a year & 1/2 later) he will go mad and blame me if i go ahead with this prgnancy, i cant imagion having an abortion but it looks like i will have to i couldnt go through it alone again.PLEASE HELP ↓
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| Name: alice20 | Date: Dec 20th, 2006 1:24 PM |
| The question do you want the baby,i know what its like to that scared not knowing if you could do it alone all over again. I was that scared and had an abortion i felt like i had no choice that it was best thing to do. 6months down the track i regret it, im saying you would you need to do whats best for you and your child not worry about whether the father is going to think you did it on purpose or not it. I know its scary. Abortion is a forever thing you cant change it,there isnt a day that goes by that you dont think about what could have been. You really dont sound like thats what you want. ↑ |
| Name: alice20 | Date: Dec 20th, 2006 1:25 PM |
| I fell pregnant when my son was6months old i didnt think i could handle another baby just yet. ↑ |
| Name: littlejo | Date: Dec 20th, 2006 6:06 PM |
| i told the father today and he wasnt horrible to me for once he was quite concerned as to how i was... i am going to speak to him tommorrow to c what he has to say. he is in cyprus at the moment so it is hard to speak to him. i am so worried/scared/confused. im not againts abortion i just know i would be riddled with guilt. i am soooooooo petrified as to what i do. ↑ |
| Name: elvisqueen | Date: Dec 22nd, 2006 8:06 PM |
| Most important do you want this baby or do you wish to make things work out with your boyfriend. Only remember this every single time your whole entire life, that men come and go and baby's are once in a life time. Do not let a man make your life decisions, that is why you are your own person. If you wish to truely find out if this man loves you, then he will stay even though you are pregnant. ↑ |
| Name: mel211985 | Date: Dec 28th, 2006 11:56 PM |
| hiya i went through a similar thing to you i fell pregant at 16 and my daughters dad was great about it (she is now 4 yrs old). When she was about a yr old he dissapeared and i later found out that he had been sleeping with another woman for most of our relationship. When my daughter was 2 and a half he came walting to my door saying he wanted to be part of his childs life. I wanted the best for her so i agreed and we started up a relationship i found out 5 months down the line i was pregnant i listened to his promises but i knew he was unreliable and faced the fact i could be doing it on my own. True to my instincts i found out he was married to the woman he left me for when i was pregnant with my eldest and done a dissapearing act again. My daughter is now 5 months old and has never met her father you have got to trust your insticts with this one if you believe you can do it go for it but no ones gonna tell you its gonna be easy if you wanna chat more just reply back xx ↑ |
| Name: bundy_mum | Date: Dec 29th, 2006 4:33 AM |
if he cant understand , he is not worth it. There are alot of nice males out there that would love you and your children just the same. I hane an 18 month old and i am 12 weeks pregnant and i just broke up with the father 3 weeks ago and there is no way we are getting back together. I have no support and no friends. All i have is my daughter and this website to get me through it have a think about it before you actually decide. If ya wanna talk email me on
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| Name: mama2b2007 | Date: Jan 9th, 2007 11:38 PM |
I saw your posting and I can only imagine the emotional ups and downs you are going through right now.
My name is Linda and it's been my dream for a very long time to become an adoptive mother to a newborn baby. If you are thinking about placing your baby for adoption, please consider talking with me. I'm stable, have my own home, have a good job, and am fortunate to be in the position of being a stay-at-home Mom. I would promise to give your child a lifetime of love, affection, education, and extended family. Your baby would grow up in a suburban neighborhood, near parks, good schools, and with me, someone who has a great deal of love and resources to give to a baby.
I know that you have a difficult choice to make and I really hope that you're doing okay.
Let me know if you want to talk about adoption as a possibility.
Best wishes,
Linda
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| Name: oklcowgirl26 | Date: Mar 23rd, 2007 2:30 AM |
| littlejo send me an email and lets see if I can help u out [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: dmt | Date: Apr 5th, 2007 1:11 AM |
EMAIL ME I THINK I CAN HELP YOUWITH YOUR SITUATION!!!!!!!!
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