hi Regan
Why did he wait until after the babies were born? Were you having problems already? I think you need to get as much family and friends over to help you. What about neighbors. If you tell them what you need I am sure they would be willing to help. Are you close with any women in the neighborhood who can come help. Older women love helping out?? I know it is going to be hard but if he's not helping then he is just dead weight. Instead of having to worry about him you can then focus on your babies. My mama always said..I CAN DO BAD ALL BY MYSELF ↑ |
| he already had his plan in motion,5 hours-come on!i hate to say it but think of him as a sperm dodr and move on!look into any help you con get. if you are in the us,look into support systems set up for ppl in situations like yours. make sure he PAYS for being such a moron,he had 9 months to get ready for this birth.what was he doing? i would love to get him in a room with a bunch of moms,he would not be walking too well when he left! he is a scumbag-dont let him do this to you and get away with it! get MAD-and then get EVEN, what he did there is no excuse for....... good luck-email me if you need help getting started,[email protected] ↑ |
Do you have any friends or family that could give you a breather?
Some churches may have programs or you can ask around at your dr., church or community center. You're going to need some time to yourself. And hopefully you can talk to your husband about counseling. It sounds like there may be some underlying problems here. Good luck! ↑ |
u need to find a mature constructive way to handle this, take all of his money mwahahahaha! srry evil flash...
anyway u have every reason to worry but ask a specialist, not ppl u dont know... ↑ |
