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Name: Becks

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Hi all

Im 24 weeks pregnant and have been alone since i discovered i was pregnant at 4 weeks.
My story is rather confussing so pleasee bear with me. I was with my ex partner in january of this year when i fell pregnant he was with a girl but told me it wasnt serious and he wanted to leave her i never thought i was that native but funny thing love can do to you but he left me once i was pregnant saying it couldnt possibly be his as he is infertile which i find hard to believe as he already has a 2 yr old son and a year ago his ex had an abortion. However the doubts started to wander in as 2 days after i had my last period i went on a night out with a male friend and at the end of the night he was left with no way of getting home so i offered to let him sleep at my house we were both extreamly drunk and fell to sleep however as i was drifting off he started trying to insert his fingers in me i said NO were friends now go to sleep and with that i fell asleep in the morning when i woke i had a little pain in my vagina. But i put it to back of my mind putting it down to the fact he tried it on i couldnt remember anything else happened and i even asked him and hhe said he fell asleep as he was so drunk so i left it at that then two weeks after this happening i believe my most fertile time i had sex with my ex.
So to summerise im not 100%sure who the father is but if i had to put money on it i think its my ex because of how the dates work out.
So basically i have no one to confide this information in and feel so very humiliated at the situation i have got myself in and feel so scared about the prospect of been a single mum i dont regret keeping my daughter would just be nice to have someone to chat to who is not involved and can give me there honest opinion. ↓

Name: joanne | Date: Jul 4th, 2006 3:28 PM

Yes, it's a difficult situation - having to go through your entire pregnancy playing the guessing game. Do you have exact dates? last menstrual? the day your friend stayed over? the day you had sex with your ex? Because you would be most fertile 14 days after your period. Have you tried babyzone.com it can calculate your conception date? ↑