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OK THIS IS THE THING... IM 3 MONTH PREGGY AND THE FATHER IS VERY HAPPY OR AT LEAST WAS. I FOUND OUT THAT HE IS BACK WITH HIS EX AND NOW HE IS TELLING ME THAT HE LOVES HER AND THAT HE WAS GONNA MAKE SURE THAT SHE NEVER FOUND OUT THAT WE HAD A BABY. HE EVEN TOLD ME IF YOU TELL HER AND BREAK HER HEART IM GONNA BREAK YOURS, IM GONNA DISAPPEAR. I DONT THINK THIS IS FAIR AND I'VE BEEN THINKING SHOULD I TELL HIS GIRL MYSELF??? I ALREADY LEFT HER A MESSAGE AND HE HEARD IT BEFORE SHE DID AND DELETED IT. AND MADE HER CHANGE HER # I DONT KNOW WHAT HE TOLD HER BUT HE DID, I HAVE HER HOUSE # AND HER JOB # TOO I CAN CALL HER THERE, MY SISTER SAYS ITS NOT HER FAULT MY IS NOT MINE NEITHER WHY SHOULD I FEEL ANY SYMPATHY FOR HER WHEN HE DOSENT FEEL IT FOR ME??? WHY SHOOULD I HAVE TO SIT HERE AND WAIT UNTIL WATEVER HAPPENS??? WHY DO I HAVE TO TAKE HIS SHIT, HIS UGLY COMMETS??? HE I CONSTANTLY TELLING ME THAT HE LOVES HER, WHY IS HE THRWOING IT IN MY FACE? DOSENT HE KNOWS THAT IT HURTS? SO I DECIDE IT TO CALL HER AND HE KNOWS THIS, HE TOLD ME THAT HE DOSENT WANT TO TALK TO ME AND THAT HE I CHANGING HIS # TOMOROW. WHY NOT TELL HER? I HAVE NOTTHIN TO LOOSE MAYBE I OUND SELFISH BUT WHY SHOULD SHE BE LIVING A DREAM WITH HER BOYFRIEND (MY BABYS FATHER) WHILE HE PUTS ME THRU HELL AND BACK? HIS TELLING ME THAT IF I TELL HER HE IS NOT GONNA BE AROUND FOR THE BABY WHICH MAKE ME EVEN MORE UPSET, HE I JUST A PIECE OF ASS, IM HAVING HI BABY HE IS SOOOOOOOO CRUEL AND IM TIRED OF HIM PLAYING US. WE SLEPT TOGETHER LAT SATURDAY AND SUNDAY (WE HAD SEX) I BET HE WONT TELL HER THAT NEITHER! BUT I WILL... SORRY IF IM WRONG BUT I AINT BEAT FOR HI FULLSHIT ANYMORE AND IF HE DOSENT WANT TO TALK TO ME THAN HE WILL BE THE ONE MISSING OUT, NOT ME! ↓
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| Name: LIA | Date: May 16th, 2006 8:37 AM |
| SORRY ABOUT THE TYPOS MY SSSSSSSSSSSSS IS ACTING UP LOL ↑ |
| Name: lia | Date: May 16th, 2006 8:12 PM |
| sooooooooooooo wat ya think i should do? ↑ |
| Name: Chasity | Date: May 17th, 2006 1:51 AM |
I think you should tell her.....Because I kind of was in a similar situation....But I was going out with this guy for 2 1/2 years, and he got another girl pregnant, he was telling her that he wasn't going to be there for her baby and that it wasn't his blah blah blah, but he was trying to keep it a secret about her being pregnant.....So my friend ended up calling telling me about her being pregnant, and I called her up my self and asked her.....and she said yeah!!! So I think you should let her know....just for she wont think that she has a good man, and really she doesn't!!!
u can email me back [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: TK | Date: May 17th, 2006 3:49 AM |
| Wow, the man obviously has no integrity. If you tell the girlfriend, make sure you do it for the right reasons. Don't do it to get back at him, because women are often silly and eventually he'll talk his way back in with her. Try and contact her and sit down (nicely) and explain the situation. There is currently no reason for you and the other girl to have any animosity since she is not aware of the situation. Once you inform her and she makes the decision to still be with him, which she might, so be prepared, don't be angry. Anger is a horrible curse to carry with you, just write it off that you are the better person and when you have the baby look at it as a miracle that YOU created. If he is so immature to put you and this other girl, and a BABY in the situation that he has, than my guess is that he won't be a very good father until he grows up. Realize that you deserve better, that you will never get better from him, and love and raise your baby. ↑ |
| Name: n.n. | Date: May 22nd, 2006 7:19 PM |
| Ignore him until the baby is born and then take him to court for childsupport. His fling will surely find out then when he can't deny the paternity test results! You will have the last laugh! Be patient a little while longer! ↑ |
| Name: shorty | Date: May 26th, 2006 2:37 PM |
| Girl just leave him alone it's not her fault his time will come your just getting your self all work up for nothing because what if you tell her and it back fires on you and if your P.G. you shouldn't be strees out or sad ignore him.Even if she here's you your not going to get him back. Just take care of your self that's more important. ↑ |
| Name: meia | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 9:16 PM |
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