| dump him i kno you love him and it is hard but believe me your daughter comes first i would never even let my own sons dad speak to him that way never mind someone who aint her dad i would get rid of him. ↑ |
| That's your daughter, your flesh and blood. If he can't treat her with the love and respect she deserves, give him the BOOT! That's a no brainer. ↑ |
| i know how you feel. im married but with the amount of help i get from my husband i may as well be single. ↑ |
| When my mother got with her partner when i was 13 I was less than happy, I was still grasping onto the hope my parents would get back together. I did everything I could possibly think of to break them up; wouldn't tell mum he had called, abuse him every time he did, bricked his car, egged his house, made up cruel stories about him, the list is endless. But not once did he ever argue back with me, say a harsh word or treat me with any disrespect. Its great she has come around- thats maturity on her part, and trust me it is more than likely out of love for you, that is the reason why I started actually saying hello to my mothers partner & giving him a fair go. I am now 18 and so ashamed with the way I behaved. He has done so much for me the last few years, gave me two new wonderful siblings, taught me to drive, brought my first car, paid for my graduation, my university and most of all makes my mum happy. My mum is lucky she had someone so lovely that put up with that for her, it takes a good man. You deserve that. There is always better out there. Or if you dont want to seperate perhaps try talking to him about it and suggest they spend time alone- if he's half a man he'll try. ↑ |
