Hi
I can relate to your feelings, I have a 3 year old boy and is father is from another country and hasnt been here in 6 months to see him, last year he saw him only twice 2 weeks each time, Im sure you must feel lonely and talking about abuse he doenst say he doesnt want to be in his life of with me, he manipulates me telling me is my fault that we are not together, because of my behavior he says, because as you can imagine when he calls me im not the happiest sweetest girl to him because im so upset he doesnt tell me when he is comming or whats gonna happen, and about social life also i can relate because i work a night shift form 5pm till midnite, its great because i get to be with my son mostly all day, but I miss going out to dinner to a movie etc, he sleeps over my parents house on saturdays, but its only one day a week, though can i ask you, can your mom watch them one night a week so you can go out? it would be helpfull? its important to have time for yourself i have 29 too....we are not teenagers no more and I feel weird that most of my friends are married or living with their boyfriend and being a single mom at almost 30 is something that makes me sad....if you want to talk my email is [email protected]
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