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Name: kaycuttie

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hi i am 27 and a single mother of one 7 yearold girl i was married. After a course of anti biotics and me havinno brain i have found myself 7 weeks pregnant and i dont know who the dad is its one of two men i have been seein for over two years and neither of them will be at all pleased its compplicated :( soi canttell them i stopped seein one of them about 6 weeks agoand the other 4 weeks ago before ifound out . i am booked in for a termination in a week because upto this weekend i was surethat was for the best but now i'm not so sure these men cant have any part of it and will have to tell them its somone elses andlie forever if i keep it and i just dont know what to do i dont know anyone who has ever beenin this situation and i feel so lost can anyone help? ↓

Name: Becks | Date: Jul 4th, 2006 12:07 PM

Hi
I can totally symperthise with you i too do not know who the father of my child is and have carried on with my pregnacy however it wasnt always gonna be like this i didnt want her because i wanted her to have two parents but a very wise person said to me does it really matter she is your baby no one elses i hope you can see there is ppl out there like you and my story can help you decided.

Becks x ↑

Name: kaycuttie | Date: Jul 4th, 2006 12:59 PM

thanks babe its good tohearfrom someone in same situation i guess i just dont know what i am gonna tell the mtwo guys and thats worrying me also doin it all on my owni know how hard it is havin one already i just really dont know waht to do ..... ↑

Name: safeguard2u | Date: Jul 8th, 2006 6:42 AM

Please don't kill the child. If you are willing to carry the baby the term, my husband and I will gladly raise him/her. No one has to know but us. Trust me I've lost a child and the thought of losing her still reeks me. That will hunt you forever. The comfort of knowing you gave this child a chance at life will bring warmth to your spirits. If you want to discuss this further contact me at [email protected] Anitra Manigan ↑