Name: sarajane Title: kill her self

a few days ago a certain friend of mines told me she got raped i didnt really believe her but she had the bruses to show i realized her stomach started getting bigg but i thought she was eating to much but now its confirmed she stopped having her period shes to scared to tell her parents and i just got off the phone with her and she was talking some weird stuff about suicide or getting an abortion or doing it herself im so scared she wont tell me who did this to her but she just kept telling me its someone we both know sorry this is long but do you think shes having those what you call it when yur depressed when your having a baby or what??? confused and scare  ?

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Name: mckenzie • Date: 05/07/2008 18:32:05

she need help tell her not to get abortion you are a good friend to her talking to her will help tell her not to kill her self  =

Name: mckenzie • Date: 05/07/2008 18:32:46

my email is jamaica.p3323@yahoo.com  =

Name: flywithoutwing • Date: 05/07/2008 21:36:35

Well....Sorry to hear that. But she should tell her parents. This is not a joke......As I know some single parents on www.singleparentloing.com have met the same problem like her. They did not tell their parents. But now they are all regret  =

Name: mich • Date: 05/07/2008 23:46:53

email me michelle.miller@pobox.com  =

Name: sarajane • Date: 05/08/2008 11:10:17

she ran away yesterday so i dont know whats going to happen  =

Name: mich • Date: 05/11/2008 00:28:38

I am so sorry. I know your friend might get upset with you but, you really should tell her parents. I know she is scared to tell them right now. She needs her parents right now a lot more than she knows. How old is your friend. It matters that they find out who did it so that he has to pay for what he has done. More importantly though her parents need to know what happended so she doesn't end up killing herself. Right now she probably feels like this is the end of the world. If you and her family need to help her get through this safely and some day she will be able to look back and will realize life goes on even after bad things happen. She will also be able to be happy again eventually. If you need to talk. I am Mich. My email address again is michelle.miller@pobox.com

Love,
Mich  =

Name: Nicola • Date: 05/11/2008 08:33:33

I became a parent after being attacked...i had twins almost 3 years ago.

I very nearly had an abortion...i am glad I did not.....but that doesnt mean it's not the right option for your friend. She needs to consider all of her options...and work out what is right for HER.

How old is she?

You need to be there for her...support whatever decision she decides to make...and she needs to talk to her parents...they should understand and give her support too.

Life DOES go on....sure there are times when things really hurt....and life seems hard to continue....but I now have a daughter who is almost 5 1/2 months old and am in a very strong relationship with her father.......I wish you guys all the best....  =