| see your last post!! Good Luck! ↑ |
Well, let's face it, It's all up to you! If at any point you want to chat, I'm in the same situation. i was 10 weeks along when my baby's father told me he wants nothing to do with the baby nor myself. Well, I wasn't shocked when he wanted nothing to do with me, but HIS baby? i just couldn't believe it. For one, I had a 25% chance of ever having children, and I was on birth control. I wasnt thinking about children at all, and then this came up. Currently, i'm 5 months pregnant and have four more months before my beuatiful little boy is brought into this world. I'm not going to lie to you---here will be many nights where you lay in bed crying how could he do this to me? And every time someone brings up the subject of "who's the proud daddy" I want to SCREAM! not every man in this world is fit to be a dad, and not ever guy who gets a girl pregnant stands by her or his child. Unfortunately, we are those women in the world who have to show the men that WE are the stronger ones, and they just are weak and incompetent. there will be days that you wll be sooooo joyful of your baby and it growing inside f you. try to make the baby as real as you can now. Even if it's finding a name and instead of saying "the baby" call the baby by its name. Friends---well, some of them will come and go and others---will drop off the face of the earth. I'm only 19, a single mom, full time employee and also going to college. It's difficult when I sit down and think of everything on our plates, but you know what, some way, WE WILL AND CAN DO THIS! if you ever want to chat or send an IM or email, feel free! It makes me feel better being able to talk to someone in a similar situation, and I'm sure it would help you. my screenname for AIM is chica3nini and my email is [email protected]
best of luck and keep me updated on how you're doing! ↑ |
| Not all guys are like this though. Some of us are doing the best we can to support and love our families. ↑ |
