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Name: tooba
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I know this may sound weird. But I got married about a year ago and recently my husband and I have been having problems. Well guess what? I found out I'm pregnant. I'm 3 months.. My husband moved out a couple of days ago and things have not been good with us at all. i feel so alone and hurt. I feel as though ive been betrayed and left alone for no reason. he was willing to try to fight for our marriage and when im pregnant bam, thats it, he gives up? and whats sad is that he wanted this baby, he's the one who said he wanted it and tried to get me pregnant!! I felt so alone the other night i called him and asked him to come and see me, but he wouldnt and in return all i get is rude text messages and hurtful comments. regardless i do love him and i want us to be a family. but what am i supposed to do? am i supposed to pretend i dont care and see if he comes back, because obviously showing i do care has gotten me nowhere. i dont mean to sound pathetic, im just scared an alone. im living in our home alone and i feel lonely and i cant do this alone. does anyone have any advice for me :(
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Name: tooba | Date: Jan 7th, 2008 1:14 AM
i forgot to add, if anyone wants to talk please feel free to email me or add me to msn [email protected]. thanks 

Name: cjsims | Date: Jan 7th, 2008 3:24 AM
He may be having "cold feet" to fatherhood. Kinda like a woman when she gets married. How old is your husband. Maybe the idea of a cute cuddly baby sounded nice, until reaity hit him that there was no turning back now. I'd tell him the only way you're agreeing to sign divorce papers, if it comes to that, is if you go through counseling first. I don't know if backing him into a corner will work or not, but I'd DEFINITELY do whatever you had to do to save things and figure it out before the two of you just give up on things. Keep your chin up, hon. Find a good marriage counselor. Good luck. 

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