My sister,she's actually my twin, is disabled from the waist down, due to a car accident when we were ten. Honestly, I think the effects vary with the kid. If Jamie had been disabled from the neck down, things would be very different. She wouldn't be going to school for instance. If she had sustained brain damage, things would be extremely different.
But nevertheless there are still very evident effects that are felt. For example she needs constant care and I am her caretaker, meaning i have to help her shower and use the restroom and such.
I'd be happy to discuss this with you further. You can email me at: lilfiftyfour@ladylions.net
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