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Lizzie, are you busy pampering yourself yet?????? ↓
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| Name: hdc_momof2 | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 4:08 PM |
| oooh i want to be pampered tooooo!!!! hehehehe ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:19 PM |
| Funny you should bring this up. I honestly thought TODAY would be the day. But no,the check didn't come. I can't believe it! My husband is going to be so pissed and he is going to put ME through hell over it. ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:21 PM |
| awwwe Lizzie.......I am looking forward to haring all about it. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:26 PM |
| I want to cry and bust out a window in anger all at the same time! We are so financially screwed at the moment! I had to borrow gas money from my son yesterday,can you believe that?! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:27 PM |
| It broke my heart when I had to call my dad and tell him,"no dad I STILL can't pay you yet because our stupid check didn't come"!!! ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:30 PM |
Well Lizzie,
I know this is so frustrating.....but really it can not be much longer hopefully tomorrow. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:31 PM |
| I think they are only delivered on saturdays and mondays. ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:31 PM |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:31 PM |
| I'm just devastated at the moment. ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:32 PM |
| oh Lizzie....so disappointing.....but hey everyday you wait...is another day you did not spend all your money! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:32 PM |
| Our mail comes 6 days a week but for some reason our federal checks are only delivered on sat. and mon. I don't know why. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:33 PM |
| My husband is going to turn into a total asshole and take it all out on me! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:34 PM |
| It's times like these when I feel like i'd be better off dead. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:34 PM |
| people who say money isn't everything well I'd like to see them live without it! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:36 PM |
| I'm sorry I shouldn't be talking like this but we have been anticipating this payday for months and it should have been here already and it's not and things are just really extra tight to the point where I'm going to have to as my parents for another loan and I really don't want to but I see no other choice and I'm just really sad right now and there's nothing I can do about it! ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:45 PM |
| I guess right now another week would seem like a very long time....... ↑ |
| Name: maxieellis | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:48 PM |
| awwh lizzi so sorry to hear about the cheque still not in the post. I sure understand how you feel though......there was a time and boy I will not ever forget it....and it COULD happen again. I really hope it doesnt though cuz i know how hard it is......when that does happen man! Money is not everything......but no there is just no way to live without what you NEED at least to get by. They dont make it easy for anyone these days.......the utility companies and the phone company are just highjackers, ruthless and heartless to boot!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:56 PM |
| I'm at my wits end here and when I tell my husband the news I'm going to wish I was miles and miles away! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:57 PM |
| Being financially screwed is truly a devastating thing,it really is. I already owe my parents a ton and yet here I have to ask them for more! ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:58 PM |
Lizzie,
would your hubby really be upset with you? Really you have no control over it...... ↑ |
| Name: maxieellis | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 5:59 PM |
| yup i do know lizzi the belt can only thighten so friggin far.......and thats the end of the notches ya know. Well hon.....dang if we could ya know we would....take that disapointment right away from ya.........hubby too. I really hope it like shows up at the latest tuesday or wednesday..........just in time sort of thing......i really do hon. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 6:00 PM |
| I'm just so tired of all the financial burden being on my shoulders. I mean no i don't bring the money in but I am the one who writes the checks out for bills and i'm constantly worried about not having enough and right now we are in trouble! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 6:01 PM |
| I'm glad you girls ar3e here to talk to! It helps! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 6:02 PM |
| Winn he won't be mad at me but he will take it out on me! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 6:03 PM |
| He will get in a real pissy mood and start bitching and complaining and then he will start giving me dirty looks and making smart ass comments to me like it's all my fault. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 6:05 PM |
| He enjoys taking his anger out on me. He never hits me but he does deliver alot of emotional abuse. ↑ |
| Name: maxieellis | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 6:05 PM |
| i hear ya lizzi on both counts hon. Its so tough on them too........and yeah the only place to vent is directed your way. bugger. Yes and even though you are not earning a paycheque you see where the money goes........and yeah it would make any responsible person just freak! Knowing full well there is just not enough to go round all the friggin time. Short here....short there.......robbing peter to pay paul sort of thing on a constant basis........and seemingly getting nowhere at all..........i know hon i sooooo do.,....you can tell by what i say babe......so been there and done that man, oh yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 6:05 PM |
| And I'm going to be under fire until the day that check comes in. ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 6:05 PM |
Lizzie,
if that happens, go on out......for a walk...coffee with your parents...something......do not sit home and put up with it . ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 6:07 PM |
| Maxie,I'm glad you understand and know where I'm comming from,thank-you for being here! :) ↑ |
| Name: maxieellis | Date: Feb 26th, 2007 6:10 PM |
| well thats the good news......sort of ....he doesnt hit you.......BUT that other stuff is equaly as damaging and very hurtfull i know. I dont know what to tell you on that one hon.....cuz there is no changing the person ya know. He feels what he does........and knows he is doing all he can for his family....and knows somehow it just isnt enough and knowing this doesnt make it easier for him......likely harder. Cant admit that to his wife.....so its got to transfer ya know.....the blame game. No way around that........well at least i sure dont have any suggestions on the issue hon. I am sure you have talked to him either during those times or when things were better.....explaining that your in it together and its not anyones "fault" its just life........and right now it sucks. I dont know babe.....wish i had the magical answer. ↑ |
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