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Name: AmberIrwin21

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I am 21.My husband is 25.We have 3 kids.The oldest is 2 and 1/2 and the youngest is 2 mos.I can't seem to get him to grow up and be more supportive and helpful.He thinks because he works and pays the bills, he should be able to come home and do NOTHING else.The kids stress me out.And I deal with them all day long by myself.I have tried everything, from being stern and mean to crying and pleading with him to change.Am I fighting a losing battle? ↓

Name: CaliMama08 | Date: Feb 5th, 2010 10:37 PM

I'm really sorry to hear about this. Change is in face a very hard thing for most people. You can try having a serious discussion with him and see what happens. ↑

Name: AmberIrwin21 | Date: Feb 6th, 2010 6:42 PM

I have had serious discussions with him and it's like he gets it and then we go to sleep and get up the net day and all is forgotten!It's really frustrating.I love him but I HAVE to put my kids first.And I don't want them feeling like I'm "mean" because I'm the only one to discipline them and I get frustrated with them so much. ↑