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Name: momo

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I am on a post rage today LOL..

My MIL is coming today..Last time she came out herre..King was 3 days old..last time she saw king he was 2 months old..that was before she divorced my FIL..

I am so nervous because her and Brent are so much alike..and me and FIL are so much like..That is where Brent gets his running of his mouth..I do like her..but have never been so close to her..when i met her..she was on drugs..and an alocholic..I got her into rehab..She has been clean about 2 years now..and i am proud, but she is still this bi polar..abraisive woman..who i am clueless how our conversations are going to go..

Obviously Brent and i have problems right now..and i dont want her to meddle, because she is not the one to be even neil..she is protective over him..Where as, his dad..his dad never takes sided..Same as my mom..my mom never takes sides..but she..she will always take sides..and i just hope this visist goes good..i am scared..i hope she comes with good intentons..

send your good vibes my way ladies..hope i am alive ↓

Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 11th, 2008 7:31 PM

Well hopefully she isn't staying very long and you can just casually breeze your way through it. ↑

Name: DinaM | Date: Feb 11th, 2008 7:35 PM

maybe her plans will change and she wont come at all:) ↑

Name: marija | Date: Feb 12th, 2008 10:17 AM

good visit vibes coming your way momo...I sent a little lotto win vibe too...hahahahahaha ↑

Name: .atomic snowflake | Date: Feb 12th, 2008 10:30 AM

Add some strychnine to her Tacos :-D ↑

Name: briseis | Date: Feb 12th, 2008 10:39 AM

Good luck! My MIL is horrific. She always took Mark's side no matter what in the past, and hates me. My son is 5-months-old, and she hasn't been to see him since he was 3-weeks-old. ↑

Name: Dawn C. | Date: Feb 12th, 2008 3:16 PM

Just grin and do your best to get through. It's not like she's going to be there forever...thank God. Maybe have a chat with Brent before she arrives and let him know you would like this to be a NICE visit so maybe he can keep your personal problems just that...PERSONAL.

I may be out of line here but the way I see things is it is YOUR home and his mother should respect that fact. Her son is a grown man with a family...there should be no whining from him or interfering from her allowed. ↑

Name: momo | Date: Feb 12th, 2008 4:12 PM

Well ladies..it is turning out not to be so bad..i was scared..but her intentions of her visit thus far have been good..We had a very nice dinner last night..and her and brent got to talk alot..

So so far it has been good..she is going to watch kingston while i work today and bond with him..so i am glad that she came out here ..i just always worry.. ↑

Name: briseis | Date: Feb 12th, 2008 4:27 PM

Good good. But never put down your guard. :) ↑

Name: bebe9281 | Date: Feb 12th, 2008 7:39 PM

I ALWAYS freak out before my in-laws come and it is never as bad as I make it out to be in my own head.... ↑