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rick sorta moved out last night he only took a few things so it is only me and ethan rick wont let me know where he is staying and i dont care he wants to take ethan next week end and i will be very alone and will lose my mind all together but rick cheats and is a jerk all the way im shocked he left i thought it was all talk i am so confused it could be the end of us befor he left he took ethan outside and talked to him i dont know what he said i was still in the house should i question ethan or leave things alone so far ethan has not asked me any thing about his daddy ↓
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| Name: Layne | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 4:30 PM |
| Dina dont let men use you as a door matt...He is a jerk if he cheats and probibly wont change..I hate to see anyone go though this. ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 4:31 PM |
Dina
In all honesty...YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITH JUST YOU AND YOUR SON!!!!!
From all you have said...he has no value for your relationship.....No respect for YOU!
You can do it on your own.......there are so many single Moms! ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 4:33 PM |
| he is gone he thinks i will stalk him if i know where he is staying i bet he stays with a girl i know of 2 girls that call his cell phone he hurt me many times and i did my best to keep our family happy i am un sure what to think i feel empty ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 4:34 PM |
| Dina, that empty feeling will last for a while.......you will feel empty and sad...eventually that may turn to anger and hatred....and finally acceptance and seeing what is best for you and your son. ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 4:35 PM |
| im use to him not being here at home he most of the time is gone but a small peice of me was hoping he would been here when i got up today i would be better with out him i cannot find the strengh i need ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 4:37 PM |
| i need to call his phone and tell him dont worry bout thinking things out i made your mind up for you and you need to come get all your stuff and stay gone but im scared he want to take ethan if i tell him to pack up for good ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 4:37 PM |
| you better get child support from him...Do you have a lawyer? ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 4:39 PM |
| no i dont have a laywer and i dont have money because rick was bringing the money ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 4:53 PM |
| if i knew were he is i would feel better ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 4:54 PM |
| if he will call here today i wont answer the phone let him wonder were i could be ↑ |
| Name: Nicolaaa | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 5:00 PM |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 5:02 PM |
| I wouldnt play games with him either...I know it hurts...Trust me I know...I lost 30 pounds in 1 month...becouse i couldnt eat at all...but I chased my x one time and I regret it to this day...I will never and I mean never chase another person and beg them to stay or be with me AGAIN!!!!Do you have family that can help you through this? ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 5:02 PM |
| no im not lynne nicola i have said befor that rick was planning on moving out weeks back i mentioned it as well ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 5:04 PM |
| i was never round any family but my parents my dad passed on when i was 12 and me and mom never got along since then so rick and ethan are all i have ↑ |
| Name: Coartney | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 5:37 PM |
| at least he left on his own? most men are jckasses when u say GET OUT ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 6:18 PM |
| rick has been talking for months that he wanted to move out so he had time to think bout if he wanted our marriage to stay in tack so he left last night has not called yet im worried bout things ↑ |
| Name: momo | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 6:21 PM |
| Dina...don't press you son for any info...its not good to do that to a boy or any kid..Just let things be...Like winn said the empty feeling will go away..You will eventually learn that life by yourself is much better off...you just ave to have the inital shock were off ↑ |
| Name: Dawn C. | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 6:53 PM |
Dina...sorry to hear that you are upset by this but truthfully this is the BEST thing that could have happened! You can and will get along with out him just fine. You will have peace in your life instead of a drunken, abusive, cheater. This is a new beginning and you should be looking forward to having that bum out of your life.
The FIRST thing you need to do is get down to the court house ASAP and file for child support and custody of Ethan. There is no way Rick can get custody unless you don't file for it or you have a DOCUMENTED mental illness. ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 11:42 PM |
| i got hold of rick on the phone only cause i called him over and over but he answered and told me i was crazy and hung up he is a dickhead for sure he can just plan on staying gone for good ↑ |
| Name: Dina, | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 11:43 PM |
| i dont have money for a laywer but he isent going to take ethan away from me ↑ |
| Name: homemommichele | Date: Jun 3rd, 2007 11:53 PM |
| Dina, child support is the law, and one will be provided for you if you do not have money. Many many lawyers at least give free consults. Call a family law one and get a consult, if they can't help you they can probably at least point you in the right direction. I am happy for you!! You cannot change someone. Maybe now eventually you can be happy. ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Jun 4th, 2007 2:25 AM |
Dina....
Do NOT call him again........Let him go..Unless he wants to change.....
Get down to the court house........and ask about legal aid...or what ever they have there......There has got to be a way for you to get a lawyer......
Yes it is the Law...he has to pay child support.......and if he left ya...alimony as well.........also put in a custody order quickly! ↑ |
| Name: winnmom | Date: Jun 4th, 2007 2:28 AM |
Dina,....a lot of us have been down this road that you are now facing......you can get good advice and support and be pointed into the right direction here.........buuuuut YOU and only YOU can do the leg work.
first off....DO NOT CALL HIM AGAIN! DO NOT!!!!!
If he calls, yes answer.......when he visits your son...Momo is so right......do not drill your son after.......never talk bad about Rick to or infront of your son either....... ↑ |
| Name: Layne | Date: Jun 4th, 2007 3:26 AM |
| very good advice from winn and MoMo... ↑ |
| Name: .RoSey. | Date: Jun 4th, 2007 5:45 AM |
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