well i went to that bbq....most of the guys there i've known anywhere from 5-10 years, except one guy from australia who just started working with hubby this year...all the girls are new. one girl was nice to me, and she was packing Anika around everywhere and feeding her watermelon...lol...but the rest of the girls TOTALLY snubbed me...i'd try and talk with them but they were either competely sarcastic or a fake niceness...you could just tell...one girl i remember from the beginning of the season when we had a bbq at our house...she came into MY home, and said not one single word to me and when she left, she didn't even thank me for the hospitality, even though I made ALL the friggin' food that she pigged out on. and the rest of the girls that were there had their own little clique type thing and i was just....nothing.....do you think maybe they look at me different cause I'm James' wife and he's one of the crew bosses? the guys were all nice to me and talked with me...but i would have liked to chat and get along more with the girls...i don't have many girlfriends so it would have been nice...one girl i wanted kick right in her narrow behind....everything i said she had a sarcastic smart ass comment.....pissed me off, and if i had had a few more drinks i probably would have said something to her....well next weekend is James' 30th birthday, and everyone is going out, so I will try again to be nice to them, but if they give me attitude ONE MORE TIME, I will say something....i don't deserve that at all....i'm a nice person, and I didn't sit there and try to be snobby....i really honestly tried to be nice to them but NOPE!!! oh well...usually if someone doesn't like me, fine..fair enough, but i'm trying to get along with them cause my hubby has to work with them...but it's not workin' for me....lol.... ↓
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