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I know, i know, you all kow me. It's amanda. you probabbly all hate me if you've read my comments. i'm amodel and i work, and yes i've got a nanny doing everything for me, but that nanny happens to be my best friend and Katie(the baby that i had) Loves her like a mother and she's one of the happiest kids you'll meet. Everyone lives differently, and i just happen to have round the clock help and life is easy for me, but that doesn't make me a horrible person. I'm not going to change my life around just because i had a baby and luckily i don't have to. my whole familysupports me and they realise that i wasn't ready to be a mom.My baby is different from other babies and my life allows me to live as carefree as i want.I fyou'r not happy than neither will your child. I do what's right for me first and foremost and she loves me for that ↓
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| Name: amy | Date: Jan 24th, 2006 7:16 PM |
| i sounds as if u, n ur baby have a happy life. but u sud try spend as much time with her as u can so that u katie can get to no each other more cos if u bond with her u"ll want to spend more time with her. ↑ |
| Name: amanda | Date: Jan 24th, 2006 7:25 PM |
| We spend time with each other, but we do it s friends. she has a mother, and a mother she loves. Her and i listen to music(from the radoi) it's her favorite kind, and we go shopping.My nanny does everything that doesn't make me happy. some people are born to be mom's but i'm not one of them ↑ |
| Name: amanda | Date: Jan 24th, 2006 7:26 PM |
| Katie doesn't like all the normal things babies like. when i hang out with her we don't do the mother daugher thing, we're like best friends and i wish you could uderstand that. ↑ |
| Name: Amanda | Date: Jan 24th, 2006 7:29 PM |
| i don't know why you ar eso down on me. my life works for me and my whole family, and i'm sorry if i can't be you, but i have to be true to myself ↑ |
| Name: amanda | Date: Jan 25th, 2006 6:59 PM |
| i don't understand why just because i had a baby i should change my life around and become someone that i'm not. i live life for me, and that makes everyone in my life happy. i fi had to give up my old party life than i wouldn't be happy, and if i'm not happy than neither would she. she gets plenty of care from lots of different people so i don't see what the big deal is ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: Jan 25th, 2006 9:36 PM |
amanda the deal is why get pregnant if u new u couldnt give up your party life for this child that you brought in to the world.
i did not mean to affend you but if it works for you all then thats fine, but there are people who would do any thing to be mums. ↑ |
| Name: Nikki | Date: Jan 26th, 2006 3:21 PM |
| It sounds like you're looking for attention. ↑ |
| Name: amanda | Date: Jan 26th, 2006 6:15 PM |
| i wasn't trying to get pregnat, it just happened. things happen sometimes ↑ |
| Name: amanda | Date: Jan 26th, 2006 6:16 PM |
| my child doesn't care if i party and that's the honest truth ↑ |
| Name: to amanda | Date: Jan 27th, 2006 4:06 AM |
| your modelling career must not be going to well if you are always posting on here! ↑ |
| Name: Egotistical | Date: Jan 28th, 2006 11:00 AM |
Some Mental Institutions allow their 'inmates' to go on the internet I believe. Perhaps she's one of them, but they really should be aware of her behaviour.
Go and take your Lithium - your levels are dropping! ↑ |
| Name: you're a fraud | Date: Jan 28th, 2006 5:23 PM |
amanda,
your nanny takes care of your child - this post
your boyfriend takes care of your child - past post
which is it?
you've posted as your nanny, only to reply as 'amanda', then say you accidently typed 'amanda' in the name field
you have a crazy party life, and support yourself through modelling, yet you're always here posting
this will be my one and only response to you
hopefully if enough people ignore you, you will go away
boycott amanda, everyone? ↑ |
| Name: Serra | Date: Jan 28th, 2006 6:22 PM |
| I agree every mother is different and it's all a balancing act ↑ |
| Name: debbie | Date: Feb 7th, 2006 11:55 AM |
| i am a working mom and plenty of times i wonder if i had the choice would i be a stay at home mom. it makes me feel really bad, but after about 3 months i started getting really unhappy at home. i agree that you have to be happy to make your child happy, but it's still confusing to me that i don't think i'd stay at home even if i could. do any of you feel that way. i do have twins and they're my first babies - don't know if that could be why i feel like i do OR maybe it was slight postnatal depression? ↑ |
| Name: sarahg | Date: Feb 7th, 2006 5:40 PM |
| your sound like a piece of crap mom who putes her own greedy need before her precious new little baby. If you "wern't ready to be a mom you shouldn't of spred your legs "just because your a model. People don't hate you because you have sucess in your life they hate how pompus you are about it. VERY DISCUSTING!!! ↑ |
| Name: to amanda | Date: Feb 8th, 2006 9:50 PM |
| Name: a mom | Date: Feb 11th, 2006 1:37 PM |
| I guess i dont understand how you know your child is happy if you never spend any time with her? I know you say your child receives love but I'm sure she would rather receive that love from you. My children are happy because I believe that all children should have a happy child hood and I have devoted my life to that. They know I love them but that doesnt mean that they dont hurt because their father doesnt show them that same love. The reason you have so many people showing your child love is probably because they see the lack of attention it gets from you. I wasnt ready to be a single mother and work a full time job, come home and clean and cook and stress about bills and wait on my kids and do homework and run them around and live where i live and drive what i drive and sit home every weekend so I dont have to leave my kids with sitters. But thats what happened and when it did - i had to deal with it- and they way i did was by realizing that my kids had no choice in the matter so why should they suffer- no matter what i had to give up- they were coming first and they were going to have a happy childhood and they are going to know what love is- they are going to know what it feels like for someone to truly love them, to see someone make sacrifices for them - to put them before anything or anybody. I couldnt even imagine myself driving an expensive car but then telling my kids that I cant afford for them to play football or buy books at the bookfair,or anything of that matter. Every decision i make i put my childrens needs first. I protect them as much as I can from ever feeling neglect because I couldnt imagine them having to feel that from both their mother and their father. I went out with a guy once who had a son who he just loved and spoiled when he had him because of the guilt he felt for not being able to be with him all week. I didn't go out with him again because i was so afraid that my kids would wonder why they couldnt have a dad who loved them that much. You actually remind me of their dad- he loves them when its convenient for him, he does things for them as long as it doesnt prevent him from having to do without something. Kids are kids but they are not stupid...they see those things- i am constantly covering up for their dad and making excuses for him just to not hurt my kids. Kids arent something you can just put on hold until you are ready to be a parent. I have nothing against parents who are young and not ready to be moms- but ready or not- that is your child and you should make some sacrifices to be more of a parent. I know everyone is different and you say your child is happy- and it would be different if you had all these people to take care of your child so you could work and better yourself- but you seem to have made no sacrifices for your childs benefit. ↑ |
| Name: To Amanda | Date: Feb 12th, 2006 2:48 AM |
| This is the only time I've replied to any of your posts, but this is also the only time I ever will. I applaud you for having the baby instead of getting an abortion. If your life works for you right now, then fine, as long as she's well-cared-for. As she gets older, she'll need you more. I know someone well who still, at age 50+ "lives her life for her" and her children are aweful. They have not feelings for her and are very disrespectful to all adults because of her example. There will come a time when you have to make a choice. While she's very young, your lifestyle won't do her any harm. ↑ |
| Name: DAVID_22 | Date: Feb 20th, 2006 11:13 PM |
| Name: dusty | Date: Mar 11th, 2006 2:15 AM |
| You sound very young and self absorbed. ↑ |
| Name: to amanda | Date: Mar 11th, 2006 2:16 PM |
| you are selfish and sick -- get help. ↑ |
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