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Name: Andrea

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I just stumbled across this site and replyed to the twins for adoption post, and honestly I feel kind of stupid. My husband and I are hopeing to adopt as we will never be able to have children on our own...I have severe pcos and he has a very low sperm count. We have been together for 6 and 1/2 years and as of the 13th married for 5. He is in the armed services and I work in the medical field. We are almost finished with our state homestudy just lack his medical check which will be done very soon...criminal and finacial checks have already been done and approved. We have been disappointed a few times already while seeking to adopt but are still very close to the mothers and wish them the very best of luck. We're just hoping that someday it will happen for us. If you would like to know more and are interested please feel free to im or email me at [email protected]. ↓

Name: Hi | Date: Apr 29th, 2006 4:57 AM

This sight is so not what it was intended to be anymore... There are so many other sights online that require registration and your name will be posted with each of your posts. Other sites are also closely moderated for questionable posters, scammer activity, etc. Of course, there will never be a way around all the scammers and wierdos, but a lot of these other sights will be so much more encouraging and helpful. Just a friendly suggestion... I will not post my name or contact info here... we have been through a lot on this site with several scammers, as have many of the people who have been here hoping to adopt. Use your online search program and try everything... change up the words, try new words, etc. I did, and within a couple of days, I had found several places that were so much better. Good luck in your adoption jouney!

~ a fellow hopeful adoptive parent ↑

Name: Andrea | Date: Apr 29th, 2006 5:00 AM

Thank you for the advice. ↑

Name: Andrea | Date: Apr 29th, 2006 5:02 AM

I am sorry they thank you are me I am every one! ↑

Name: Andrea | Date: Apr 29th, 2006 5:16 AM

omg...I was reading some of these posts and I can not beleive what is going on here. I have never in my life seen people so set and determined to hurt others. I now wish I had never posted here we have already been hurt a few times and its hard enough to deal with the fact you can't make babies...but for people to thinks its ok to get a laugh out of taking advantage of that is something I just can not understand at all. I would never wish infetilty on anyone. the months that rool into years of taking a pregnancy test every month and being devasted when it was negative. Even telling your spouse to divorce you so they could have a chance at a family. That is pain in itself but to have your hopes brought up and dashed by someone playing a prank......breaks my heart. ↑

Name: l | Date: May 3rd, 2006 7:49 PM

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Name: Hi | Date: May 6th, 2006 6:00 AM

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Name: tiarna | Date: May 8th, 2006 11:12 AM

hi i feel for u i know what u are goin through it is reallly hard for me i have no womb through when i was born i had it taken out and i was hopin to get a child we are still lookin after 3 years we cant find the right one i hope u see what it means to us to have a child thanks ↑

Name: to Tiarna | Date: May 8th, 2006 12:29 PM

You have no womb because when you were born you had it taken out? And you have been looking for 3 years and can't find the right child? I'm not really sure I understand what your saying. But if you are looking to adopt I wish you the best of luck in your search. ↑

Name: ? | Date: May 11th, 2006 12:27 AM

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