| Name: me2 | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 6:12 PM |
Let me start from the beginning.
Most of us cannot have children the old fashion way, but yet others can but still choose to adopt.
NOONE in your personnal life knows or understand what we go through! NOONE! unless of course they are there themselves. ↑ |
| Name: me2 | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 6:14 PM |
Then lets talk about where we came from.
That would be the OB/GYN's office where we just put out tens of thousands of dollars, and get that horrid period in the end.
What is our heart doing at this time? Crumbling, wondering if the soul can keep it going. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 6:15 PM |
"then if you say one thing wrong, and the sw doesn't like it you can then be blackballed in your own state"
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Me2, is this what happened to you? Is that why you are so defensive of anyone offering simple advice to use caution. ↑ |
| Name: me2 | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 6:17 PM |
Why I am reacting is because of your attitude.
You are ignorant to all of this. And no for your information, I have heard horror stories and am a good listener and am well aware of what is out there. ↑ |
| Name: codyjody | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 6:21 PM |
| "Luckey" is a good example of why people still cringe when they hear the word adoption! They DO NOT UNDERSTAND, or DO NOT WISH TO UNDERSTAND! ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 6:24 PM |
| I have read how defensive many of you get when good advice is offered. That concerns me that your defensiveness can easily lead to bullying. To you treat potential birthmothers with the same unwillingness to listen to their concerns? ↑ |
| Name: codyjody | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 6:25 PM |
Luckey, why don't you answer the questions asked of you?
What is your roll in adoption? ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 6:26 PM |
| I just get really pissed off when I see unethical tactics being used by desparate people on the internet. In unmonitored chat rooms none the less! ↑ |
| Name: codyjody | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 6:30 PM |
quote:
Name: luckey_in_life • Date: 10/31/2006 13:24:31
I have read how defensive many of you get when good advice is offered. That concerns me that your defensiveness can easily lead to bullying. To you treat potential birthmothers with the same unwillingness to listen to their concerns? =
Well, considering the fact I just got off the phone with Collin's first mom, I would say NO! she had a problem with her current boyfriend and wanted my advise!
Luckey, why don't you answer the questions asked of you?
What is your roll in adoption? ↑ |
| Name: me2 | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 6:34 PM |
Oh for God Sakes Luckey, What is your game? And why are you a trollying monitor?
I really get worried when I see someone who steps in on something they have no clue about. And questions people like you do.
LOL, maybe we need you in our camp when it comes to how exmoms are treated and bullied by some adoption professionals.
Are you a birthmom who was bullied? promised openness and now it isn't so? Which by the way I would personnally step on their face for you if that is a fact.
Talk to us, not at us, you never know what might come out of it. ↑ |
| Name: codyjody | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 6:36 PM |
Name: luckey_in_life • Date: 10/31/2006 13:24:31
I have read how defensive many of you get when good advice is offered. That concerns me that your defensiveness can easily lead to bullying. To you treat potential birthmothers with the same unwillingness to listen to their concerns
There is a difference between good advice given by a person who knows what they are talking about, and advice given by a person that has NO CLUE! ↑ |
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