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Name: Rke VA Couple wants to adopt
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I actually believed someone on here. Stupid on my part. Use caution before you involve thinking someone on here would really be truthful. It will only make you loose sleep. ↓
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| Name: LovingMomOf5 | Date: Jan 5th, 2009 5:16 PM |
I am so sorry to hear about your heartache, I learned really quick on this site that people on here are either scamming, or just looking to get money out of people as they dangle a blessing in the faces of us who really want to Adopt and give a Child a loving home home and brighter future. I hope you do not give up hope.
My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your Husband. ↑ |
| Name: erica1 | Date: Jan 6th, 2009 9:19 AM |
| Soooo Sorry educate yourself be careful this site is not a place to find children... ↑ |
| Name: Rke VA Couple wants to adopt | Date: Jan 6th, 2009 8:55 PM |
| It is sad when ones like Tiffany can really play off the whole part. She is in the US, but is a 40 year old scammer. The cameroon ones are easier to spot. I wish the ones seeking to adopt the best of luck. The others, I hope you rot in Hades. ↑ |
| Name: furryposm | Date: Jan 7th, 2009 5:06 AM |
Honey,
Just hug yourself, and take a deep breath! It is not just people on here that will lie, believe me, I know, they will lie to your face.
But, you have to keep your chin up, and realize, we are all vulnerable in our own ways.
And some people will come on here and lie, to for the moment make themselves feel better. I don't think they really come in here to hurt people. I think they just want to feel important. even if it is not real.
Imagine, if you yourself could not keep a baby, and were strong enough to give it up for adoption?
The feeling that it would give you to know that you are changing someones life for the better. What a rush.
But, some people need that rush, but can't do such a thing.
They just want to feel important.
You WILL find your child when the time is right, you have to believe that!
HUGS!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: Rke VA Couple wants to adopt | Date: Jan 7th, 2009 3:43 PM |
| Thank you. The whole adoption process has been so long (3years so far), and to see no end in sight is horrible. I cried a lot when I found it was just another scam, but I was glad that it didn't cost me anything. I found out first. I can only know that if it is meant to happen, it will. And it will happen when it is meant to. Until then, I wait. ↑ |
| Name: furryposm | Date: Jan 7th, 2009 11:08 PM |
I am not sure if this will help you or not. But, here is my story (breif as possible) I am 44 years old, I have been trying to get pregnant since I was 20. During my first marriage, I never got pregnant. And it kind of broke up my marriage.
Only to find out after I got married a second time, and got pregnant 5 times. That my first husband had had a vasectomy and never told me, and the fertility DR was unable to tell me for confidential reasons.
With my 5 pregnancies, 4 ended in miscarriage, and the 5th was a tubal.
I had several surgeries, and tons of medicines to try and help.
Then we decided about 6 years ago to try and adopt. We went through the state. And was with them for almost 4 years. They did not help, and the adoption worker messed up bad, and we are no longer able to adopt from them ( no fault of our own)
Then, almost 2 years ago, a family friends daughter was pregnant, and wanted to give us her child. I was there at the birth, and was the first to hold the baby and give him his first bottle.
After several hours of no sleep, I came home to take a nap before going cak up to the hospital. I got a call that woke ne up. The father who had wanted nothing to so with the baby was now there, and he wanted to keep him. Both parents were and still are on drugs, but somehow the state lets them keep him? The name we had chosen for him was already on the burth certificate. He had been ours since she found out she was pregnant. We had all the stuff, and were ready to bring him home.
Now it has been another 2 years of waiting, and filling out new home study to replace the old one.
The point is, I will never give up, because I know in my heart there is a child out there who needs us as much as we need them.
So keep the faith! ↑ |
| Name: Rke VA Couple wants to adopt | Date: Jan 8th, 2009 1:37 AM |
| we became foster parents to feel like we have been jerked around for three years. When we first signed up, we made it real clear we only wanted to adopt. After three years, they say they aren't there to make families. (HUH??) You hear of so many kids needing adopted in foster care to get jerked around. I will just keep my eyes and ears open. I refuse however to hold my breath. lol. I would be instantly blue. ↑ |
| Name: nat2828 | Date: Jan 10th, 2009 10:29 PM |
| Im sorry to hear that you have had a hard time on here through adoption. I foot understand this site myself. I have been on here for about 8 months and it is so hard to find ip that actually dont mess you around either. My name is natasha and i am wantin to be a surrogate mother whether it be TS OR GS. I have twin boys of my own in which the pregnancy was fine. This is somethin that i have always wanted to do after havin my own children. I was lucky to be blessed wiv twins however if i only had one child i wouldnt of wanted anymore i would of been happy. If you are interested in surrogacy plz get in touch. I am a genuine honest person wiv a heart. [email protected] thank you ↑ |
| Name: ARgal | Date: Jan 12th, 2009 3:34 AM |
| You poor thing! This is the first time I have been on this site and I am shocked to see scammers. It is truly cruel. I do not understand how someone could take advantage of people in this position. I am saying a prayer for you and your family. ↑ |
| Name: Rke VA Couple wants to adopt | Date: Jan 15th, 2009 6:25 PM |
I just hope that anyone who comes onto this site does their homework above anything else. If someone says they are a college student, call the college and verify it with student affairs. Cross-check their email and names used. Continue to check using several search engines. Don't send money or give any vital info to them except through your lawyer. If they refuse to talk through a lawyer, write them off.
I am holding my head higher now, and I really thank everyone for the words of support. Just watching for the legit adoptions. ↑ |
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