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I am sick and tired of people picking on me cause they think I want to "STEAL" birthmothers from them and being jealous cause they think it might just work. Do you all think this is a game? Your dealing with other's lives. Being abusive to other people here sure shows what kind of parents your going to make you think? I am leaving you can keep this forum the way it is crappy and cruel. I know there are a few good people on here and I wish those good luck. I think I would rather never have children than to compete with other Pap's and try to HOOK a birthmother. I think you all are forgetting that you have no control what so ever over those women and if your not honest completely with them they will have nothing to do with you. Some of the ones who have made bad taste remarks seem to me to be the ones who will tell the Birthmother one thing and as soon as the adoption is final to have nothing else to do with her. Seems to me all your after is a child and once you have that you could care less about anything else. I feel sorry for you. You all deserve what you get cause god has plans for us all and being a bad person isn't going to get you there any faster. I've said everything I have had to say and you won't EVER hear from me again. ↓
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| Name: mom | Date: May 23rd, 2006 1:58 AM |
| dont go you belong here ↑ |
| Name: Hmmm | Date: May 23rd, 2006 2:11 AM |
I find it interesting that Mrs. A.M. is so quick to get huffy and 'fed up' with everyone else, but everyone else was so horrible when they got huffy or 'fed up' with her... Practice what you preach, Mrs. A.M. - I met another hopeful adoptive mom on another board, that is an awesome and moderated, by the way, and she was much like Mrs. A.M. Maybe they're even the same person...their behavior is very similar! She tried to set everybody straight in their discussions, crawled people on the carpet for their opinions, etc. She too got run off, after she started criticising many other adoptive parents who were posting. She got very offended when a very sweet birthmom came on and posted to her, telling her to lighten up and learn that she couldn't control life and others around her. She has not posted there in several weeks now, but I know from her previous posts that she and her husband have been waiting forever to adopt a baby, even though they have 'everything' to offer a child. I guess her critical attitude and having a say so for everything everyone else posted, made her look unattractive to many... I for one, am here with hope... hope that the perfect birthmom will stumble upon this sight and we can meet and begin a friendship.
P.S. I have already met several wonderful people on this sight and built some wonderful friendships with them... so there ARE genuine, great people here. You just have to know how to find them! Best wishes, everyone! ↑ |
| Name: Jill | Date: May 23rd, 2006 2:11 AM |
| You can't take everyone on here seriously or anything they say to heart. If you want to be here for support then post where you can be helpful and don't post things that will make you seem critical of others (not saying you are). You have been posting everywhere and it does make you look a like you are trying to come off as the only one who is worthy of adopting. I just want you to know how it seems, I don't think you should go though you have just as much a right to be here as anyone else. Hope to see you around. ↑ |
| Name: Great post, Jill | Date: May 23rd, 2006 2:26 AM |
| What a nice post, Jill! This is what we call constructive criticism! You so nicely made a point, while still being caring and considerate. Everyone, including Mrs. A.M., if we all posted in this way, we would have nothing but wonderful people sharing great objectives, ideas and helpful hints on this board. Let's give it a try... ↑ |
| Name: Mrs. A.M. | Date: May 23rd, 2006 2:38 AM |
| Ok...now someone is just playing games....I never wrote that. I have no idea what's going on....I came in tonight and here this was. Anyone want to explain? ↑ |
| Name: hmmm | Date: May 23rd, 2006 2:42 AM |
| This is a good example of something stated to you in another post... it doesn't matter what name you post with, or if you don't use one at all; no one really knows for sure WHO is posting what!!! ↑ |
| Name: Mrs. A.M. | Date: May 23rd, 2006 3:15 AM |
| ok well If someone has to go as far as using my name then I can take the hint. I won't be bothering anyone again. I hope it works out for all of you. ↑ |
| Name: To Mrs. AM | Date: May 23rd, 2006 5:53 AM |
| You have not been on this board long enough to make a judgment...people post here all the time using other peoples names. That is why it is so terrible. No one knows for sure who is who! Everything has to be taken with a grain of salt.... ↑ |
| Name: To Hmmm: | Date: May 23rd, 2006 2:23 PM |
This place to really a joke! Anyone can be whomever they want so please don't take to heart things that are said around here or on any other message board. They could be ANYONE! However I think I know WHO you are addressing in your post and what board you are referring to, I do believe that AP was matched! AND she got tired of dealing with ppl like YOU! (I heard all about it! And I know who you are! (emailing pbmoms and talking bad of other PAP's is NOT good character! )
Shame on You! that's why you were not "chosen" ↑ |
| Name: To Hmmm: | Date: May 23rd, 2006 2:25 PM |
| FYI: I know who you are because I'm the birthmom you emailed your trash too and I'm also the one who "chose" the other AP to parent my child. ↑ |
| Name: aava | Date: May 23rd, 2006 9:43 PM |
| here here, I agree. I know I wouldnt choose an amom that I couldnt even trust enough to build a friendship with. ↑ |
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