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Name: dmt

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I just recently actively started looking for a baby about six months ago. I didn't realize how much it would hurt. I knew coming in that birth would probally changed their minds. About a week in a half ago was the first time that I sspoke with a birth mom that said she wanted me to adopt her child. I was so happy and scared. Then I could tell she wasn't sure that hurt. Then I was told by another person that they knew her and she was for real. Then I started to be really happy. then she told me she was going to keep it, It was just like an emotional roller coaster. I really want to give a a baby a good stable home home. How do we deal with the pain of loss over and over again waiting on our angel????????????????lol Michelle [email protected] ↓

Name: jessicamorris | Date: Apr 5th, 2007 2:33 AM

i nevr said i wanted you to adopt my baby, we was just emailing or rather you keep emailing me
this is not how it was
tell the truth ↑

Name: Dreamsofchild | Date: Apr 5th, 2007 3:49 AM

Michelle. I am so sorry one thing I can recommend is not to get your hopes up. Esepcially if you meet them online. Get either Your lawyer or agency to do a proof of pregnancy meaning that they get that proof directly from her doctor not a emailed ultrasound as those can be faked easily enough and not a copy of anything medical sent in an email. She signs a waiver to give you medical information to the lawyer/agency to verifiy. Yes even with verification she can and may change her mind we had that happen Yes we have been scammed etc. The good news is we have adopted. And would love to again. Best wishes
Dreams ↑

Name: dmt | Date: Apr 5th, 2007 2:12 PM

This Is how I felt it was. I am guessing that we had a misunderstanding but, it still hurts. Jessica I am sorry if I misunderstood what you wanted. ↑

Name: dmt | Date: Apr 5th, 2007 7:27 PM

thanks for your advice Dreamsofachild ↑

Name: Calitini | Date: Apr 6th, 2007 12:29 AM

Michelle,

I feel your pain. I went through something similar and I thought I would never stop crying and that my heart will never mend. The only thing we can do is continue to preserver as we wait for our angel.
God Bless ↑