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Name: Tanya

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hi i am an 18 year`s old and i am 6 month pregant.Im not with the dad no more because i just dont love him no more and he get me so angry all the time he does`nt listen or try to understand me.but were still in contact.Sence we split up we have not been gettin long at all he`s been telling me how he wants to keep the baby for him slef and his mum going to look after it wen he goes work and stuff and if i ask him for help eg:somthink to eat he`ll just replay "but were not together no more" or "why am i going to do that for you" im scared that when the baby comes along he going to try and take it away form me (how i do not know) but i just want i get along and make things work out for the furture so we BOTH can be good parants.But he is making this so hard for me so now i want to adopt so we cant argue over silly things like who gonna keep the baby or am i seeing someone else (i`ve got a baby on the way i dont want another relationship yet but he does`nt believe me) i really dont no what to do and i know things are going to get worse if he cant move on.Should i adopt or not. ↓

Name: ???? | Date: May 14th, 2006 11:38 PM

Would you like to talk, Email me at imakemoneyatpca.com
The best of luck. ↑

Name: to tanya | Date: May 14th, 2006 11:51 PM

I would love to talk to you. Feel free to email me at anytime.
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Good Luck! ↑

Name: Sorry | Date: May 15th, 2006 12:06 AM

Email is:
imakemoneyatpcarock.com I am work email me. ↑

Name: Fake | Date: May 15th, 2006 12:39 AM

Youre spelling is an absolute MESS! This is not believable at all, sorry. It just doesn't make sense. ↑

Name: To TANYA!!!! | Date: May 15th, 2006 2:48 AM

It is illegal to give your baby up for adoption with out the consent of the bio-father. I just want to warn you that there are so many people wanting to adopt that they are willing to do anything (legal or illegal) to get a child. Make sure that you do everyone in your adoption triangle a favor, let the father know of the plans. Thing is, bio-father have the right to parent a child they are willing to parent and that is the fare and right thing to do. It is wrong for you not to allow him the right to his own child. This happen to me and my husband. A pregnant women lied to us and the lawyer about the fathers ware about and wants for the child. She said that she wanted the baby to be adopted and that the b-father wants nothing to do with the baby and she had no clue about his name or ware abouts. Come to find out she knew everything that she had to know when she was told by the b-father "I want to raise MY baby!" We had the baby in our arms loving him and then 10 days later b-father shows up wanting the baby that is HIS!!! Just be careful. This decision is FOREVER!!! ↑