Hello!
I have am going through the adoption program right now with twin babies. My partener and I have talked about all these things for the last three years. It's alot to think about but, trust me, when you are looking at your baby; you'll see its all worth it. My parents went through a similar thing, but with race. They are interracial and had to decide how worth it it was to bring interraicial babies into the cruel discriminitive world; especially in the 60's and 70's. But they realized that the only way to create a more openminded world is by bring openminded people into it. I thank my parents for being this way and raising me this way. And I plan to do the same with my twins. I am also a teacher who has had children with gay parents and they end up being very well-rounded and well-adjusted. You shoiuld not worry. Realize you'll be doing a wonderful thing...and never let anyone tell you any different. Smile!
if you ever want to talk -email me anytime [email protected] ↑ |
Katie,
are you hoping to adopt, or conceive? ↑ |
I am not homosexual but my dad is gay. I actually just responded to a topic that was similar to this but it was about two daddies.
As much as we would like to protect our children from the world it's just not possible. People are cruel because they simply do not understand and 90% of the time continue to choose not to understand. Which result in children not understanding. I believe that I could have been one of those people if it wasn't for my dad. I also feel that he has help in making me more open minded about alot of things and a whole lot stronger as a person.
Don't let society tell you whether or not it is right for you to have a child. ↑ |
| hiya i am 18 and sooooo want a bay, but im a lesbain n my gf is kinda dont want one, but i do. can ne1 suggest nefing. thnk u ↑ |
| 2 b honest yeh i not in da same situation as u but if i was i would go for it no matter who objects at the end of the day its ure life and it's wat makes u happy no 1 else.Oh bi da way if u do i hope u have a very happy time together u and ure partener.x ↑ |
