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I have read all your comment bashing breastfeeding and about how you go clubbing and let your newborn sleep through the night and I seriously question your parenting judgement, if you are even real. If you are for real then if you have such negative feelings toward breastfeeding stay off the breastfeeding site where REAL women who actually care about the welfare of their children are trying to get support. ↓
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| Name: Michele | Date: Jan 24th, 2006 6:03 PM |
| Yes. And off of the sahm site too since you state you would not be able to stand being home with a child and you didn't even want yours. I hope you have a support system as you are obviously not "into" being the poor child's mom. .How old are you anyway? ↑ |
| Name: Amanda | Date: Jan 24th, 2006 6:59 PM |
| i'm actually a very nice person, and i'm 25. I love my daughter and she is more like a best friend than she is a daughter to me. just because i live differently fom you does not make me a horrible person. i'm just very oppionated and sometimes i say things that are not always very prper, but i'm sorry if i offended you. I am a real person, and i've been with my boyfriend for years and we did not expect to have a baby when we did. i love her very much, but i can't be mother but that doesn't mean i'm not involved in her life. she's my pal, but i can't help it if i don't feel maternal. my boyfriend is a great father, and my bestfriend is a great mother, aand my daughter loves me for who i am. Don't judge me before you have met me, and i'm sorry if i judged you. ↑ |
| Name: Michele | Date: Jan 24th, 2006 7:59 PM |
| New idea...have your nanny post on this site as she is the "mom"!! ↑ |
| Name: Amanda | Date: Jan 25th, 2006 5:50 PM |
| i think thats a good idea.lol!!! ↑ |
| Name: amanda | Date: Jan 25th, 2006 6:54 PM |
| Please tell me what's so great about breastfeeding. i tried it once and it did nothing for me, i just don't get it. ↑ |
| Name: Michele | Date: Jan 25th, 2006 9:23 PM |
| There are a lot of things wonderful about breastfeeding but it helps to want to be a mom and nurture your baby. I do not hate you, you just seem like you are still such a young girl who has lots of "wild oats" to sow and were obviously not ready to be a mom. I do admire you for not aborting her, as I am very pro life and I'm glad you gave her a chance. And I do wonder why you feel the need to be posting all over a board where moms are coming for breastfeeding help and encouragement when you don't want or need either. I was a neonatal ICU nurse before staying home, and I do not breastfeed mine anymore though I did both of them for a year as well as helped many other moms at work so I like to try and help when I can. The benifits are many. First and formost it is giving to your child something no one else can and helping in that bonding to be close to your baby. It is also way cheaper than formula. With your model salary and hiring a nanny maybe you don't need to save money, but many do, and would rather spend the money on clothing and other expensess ( or saving for the childs education..) than on formula. Best of all the child gets your antibodies and it helps with resistance to diseases like colds and flu, ear infections, allergies, asthma and has been shown to help prevent sids. That is only a few of the many benifits. I do also feel that if a woman is not comfortable doing it, then she shouldn't because the baby can sense that. Anyway, why don't you find some boards for young party girls? When I was in college and partying it up the internet wasn't as popular, but even then I don't think I'd have wasted my time on message boards then either! ↑ |
| Name: ? | Date: Jan 25th, 2006 9:57 PM |
amanda i think you should get of the website, your not a real mum, and not a nice person, u carnt even look after your own child.
i think you should consider going to see someone, saying that your baby is a best friend she is more than that and its time you woke up and realised you have responsibilities.
(have your nanni post in she is obvisouly a better mum than you) ↑ |
| Name: Lisa | Date: Jan 26th, 2006 6:11 PM |
| Hi everyone. i'm lisa. The nanny of amanda's baby. i am here to tell you that amanda is very much 25 and she did have a baby and i'm her nanny. amanda is an amazing person, and her and her daugter have an amazing relationship. just because she doesn't do all the things that mothers do with her baby doesn't mean that they don't spend time together. i love being a mom and she has made all my dreams come true by letting me take care of her baby. Her baby loves her and if you could see their unique relationship you would like her alot better. amanda is a very nice person who works for children's charities, and also for animal causes. just because she likes to party and have alife does not make her a bad person. she loves her daughter but she didn't expect to get pregnant right away and she's not going to change her life around for it. i really admire her ↑ |
| Name: Michele | Date: Jan 26th, 2006 8:35 PM |
| I am sure Amanda is a nice person and she has admitted to being very immature. I am glad she loves children and especially her own in her own way. I also am glad she didn't choose to abort, but at least took responsibility for her actions to have a baby, but having a baby is more than carrying for 9 months. I do have a life, and when I was her age I partied and had fun too, luckily I didn't get pregnant. I do not judge her for that, but having a baby changes your life. period. And I think what people are trying to say to her is look honey the "22 and stupid days" are behind you now. You may have not wanted to have a baby yet, but you brought this life into the world and now you are responsible for her. You can't "hire" someone to take that bond away. ↑ |
| Name: Betsy | Date: Jan 26th, 2006 11:30 PM |
| Hi everyone. I'm Betsy and I'm Amanda's High School Teacher. I can verify for you all that Amanda is indeed just a kid and goes to school just like other kids. ↑ |
| Name: Dr Schicklegruber | Date: Jan 26th, 2006 11:38 PM |
Hi everyone, my name is Dr Schicklegruber and I am Amanda's psychiatrist. I can verify that Amanda is very young and suffers from extreme delusions and fantasies. Her latest is that she is a model and has a baby. The baby is cared for by her nanny while she goes out to have fun.
This delusion is very complicated and Amanda has woven a whole fantasy world around it in order to explain her existence on this earth.
She starts her therapy sessions next week and has already started her medication schedule. We can only hope that recovery is swift. For the sake of all you poor people here. I know how you all feel as I have to listen to her endless ramblings on very frequently and I fear for my own sanity at times. ↑ |
| Name: to amanda | Date: Jan 27th, 2006 9:56 AM |
| i like how u pretended to be the nanny and pshychiatrist ,your so childish that its funny!!!!!!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: honey | Date: Jan 27th, 2006 10:29 PM |
| Name: Egotistical | Date: Jan 27th, 2006 10:55 PM |
| Name: None of your business | Date: Jan 30th, 2006 10:43 PM |
HEY GUYS READ THIS!!!
THIS SO CALLED "AMANDA" MAY ACTUALLY HAVE SOME SORT OF PROBLEM....I BELIEVE THAT HER BABY CROWD JOURNAL NAME IS "mommyanddaddy" GO CHECK IT OUT AND WRITE WHAT YOU THINK!!! ↑ |
| Name: Egotistical | Date: Jan 30th, 2006 11:03 PM |
Oh dear....oh dear....oh dear.....
Hey, check out the boyfriend!!!! scary huh? ↑ |
| Name: none of your business | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 4:16 PM |
| yeah no joke! Did you read about how the doctors are saying she isnt pregnant and she suppose to be 24 weeks or something?! ↑ |
| Name: Egotistical | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 4:22 PM |
yeah, scary. I wonder if it's the same Amanda?
It's all very strange.....Ultrasound scans can find the baby even if you have only missed one period.
She must be going around having phantom children! I wonder if she has nannies for each one???
Wierd...... ↑ |
| Name: Michele | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 5:08 PM |
| That is very scary if it is, and whereever she is from they need to watch her. Being a neonatal nurse they trained us on the type of people who would come and take a baby, and she fits it. Delusional, young woman, thinks she is or has been pregnant yet never was or lost one...very sad. I hope she gets some help. ↑ |
| Name: Refocusing | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 5:09 PM |
Ladies,
may I suggest we let this rest, and if Amanda chooses to try to play with us again, that we simply ignore her. It's the attention she wants. This forum is not the place for it.
Let us allow the forum to return to it's original purpose. ↑ |
| Name: Stephanie | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 8:12 PM |
| Name: melinda | Date: Feb 1st, 2006 9:29 PM |
| Amanda, you are kidding yourself, i think you need to look inside yourself and find the mom in you, its there, give it a chance. ↑ |
| Name: Retarded!!! | Date: Feb 6th, 2006 8:42 PM |
| I really doubt that any of this "Amanda" stuff is true. How would her "highschool" teacher know that she post on this particular website and her "psychiatrist" "Dr Schicklegruber". Some one is just more bored than I!! Except at least I talk about reality. ↑ |
| Name: Michele | Date: Feb 6th, 2006 9:18 PM |
| Not to mention the fact that a pshycologist is bound by patient confidentiality and legally could not do so. ↑ |
| Name: Christina F | Date: Feb 6th, 2006 9:57 PM |
| I know. I was rather intertaining in a way though. What an imagination. Stupid though all the same to come here when most of us are trying to get helpful information and try to help support eachother. Some people just have no respect. ↑ |
| Name: amanda is fake | Date: Feb 8th, 2006 9:58 PM |
| she's not real....probably a kid. ↑ |
| Name: Egotistical | Date: Feb 8th, 2006 10:53 PM |
| I think she might have disappeared now! I haven't seen any posts from her for a while. Lets keep fingers crossed eh? ↑ |
| Name: robbo | Date: Mar 15th, 2006 3:15 PM |
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