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Thanks to those who have given me some positive advice! I am new on here and this is the site I have been looking for and have needed! I too, like a lot of you, have been going through the struggles of being divorced, remarried with 2 kids from the first marriage and it's still pretty new to me. I was hoping for a support group in my area, but being that I work and go to school part time, it's hard to get out to do that so I searched for the online version of support and here I am!:) I am really excited about all this! ↓
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| Name: fancy | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 8:52 PM |
| no problem hoping we can help and welcome!!!! ↑ |
| Name: tweetybird4 | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 8:55 PM |
| Hi billy22---It's a pleasure to have you. There's alot of us that have similiar issues and it's great to get other opinions or just to hear some kind words when we're feeling blue. I don't know what's going on with some of the negative comments but they are getting rather annoying. This happened in the other forums too. So, try to sift your way thru those and not respond to them. It isn't worth the efforts. Anyways, hang in there, and we wish you well. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 11:33 PM |
| Name: BrookeW | Date: Nov 12th, 2006 4:15 PM |
| yeah i hear you on that one. except i am the soon to be step mommy. i too am also new on this site. all you ladies on here seem wonderful. thanks for the advice anyone has givin me. i try to stay optimistic about it all, but at times it is rough. good luck billy22.. when was the hardest most difficult time for you? ↑ |
| Name: billy22 | Date: Nov 13th, 2006 1:35 AM |
| Brooke~My hardest time was when the new step mom called me a bad mother. I really took that to heart, even though I know that I am a good Mom. She is young,like you, and has never had children...but for some reason or another she has decided to go by the book when the book sometimes isn't always reality. We all make mistakes here and there, but I always put my children FIRST. If I had one wish it would be that all four of us( my hubby and my ex and his new wife) all could be firends enough to be happy. Thanks for the imput...I realy appreciate it:) Good Luck to you also..it's hard but stick with it. ↑ |
| Name: BrookeW | Date: Nov 13th, 2006 3:23 AM |
| i would never in any way tell her that she is a bad mother because she is not in any way. i respect her so much for raising the kids the way she has. my negativity is never and hopefully never will be about the kids. its her starting stuff about me and saying lies. but when it comes to my boyfriends kids, they are number 1 even before me and they are not and never will be "mine". eventually they will be my step children, but not bio. but thats 100 percent okay! i will love them forever and always just like they were my own even if things dont work out with my boyfriend god forbid. i hate how people try to say things just to hurt you because they know what gets to you. in your situation, telling you that you've done wrong with YOUR kids.. noone has the right to say that. i won't know what its like to be a mother until i have one of my own, but i do know how to love and care for kids. i helped raise my now 5 year old twin cousins. i was all they had for a few years, and to this day, they still and will forever be my little angels. and now my boyfriends kids are stealing my heart just like they did. its a long road ahead and i will take any advice out there. so dont be afraid to speak up and tell the truth! im open to anything and everything. thanks for listening! ta ta for now. ↑ |
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